Fries & mayonaise slaps (Netherlands)

Yeah, when you’re married the husband will automatically be registered as the dad instead of ‘having to prove it’.

Our wedding had a double layer: we had the plan in our head for a while. Then my dad passed away and on his deathbed my now husband promised him he would take care of me like how he took care of me. So, it became incredibly emotional (6 months later) as some sort of seal on that promise too.

My partner and I wanted it for legal reasons, especially since I’m disabled so he can make medical decisions etc.

We can either "register as partners’ or get married. Both cost the same. Marriage had a wedding party. Costs a lil bit more, but brought together all of our friends and had a beautiful day. So why choose boring?

That is very true, ugh.

Which is weird when you see the IRL support and hype around Bernie and AOC. The people want more left in the democratic party.

Awesome, I’ll look into it

Thanks! I have no idea what matrix is though, is it like an open source / decentralized discord?

Thanks for the update! I figured it must have had something to do with the baby and the busy life + the update not working as expected, so I was patient.

After 12hrs or so I did go on mastodon to look for an update (just a ‘everything crashed, working on the backup’ kinda message) so if this ever happens again that might be an idea?

Thanks for working so hard on getting everything back up and don’t forget to rest!

I’m gonna buy a Luigi board to ask the guidance of Aaron Schwartz because I’m sure he is dying to get revenge

Yeah there’s been multiple instances where “tradwives” were exposed that they were the complete opposite.

Congratulations on becoming a parent! Here’s to decent enough sleep and enjoying the baby’s arrival 🥳

I mean they still have their body after shooting porn so they’re not really selling their body more than let’s say a construction worker

Apparently I’m a beta tester? How, what? Thanks for the link!

Blindness is a spectrum! So for example, someone could maybe make out the stick figure shape in a comic but not the speech bubbles. Most blind people can still see things but it greatly helps to have things read out as an aid to quite literally see the whole picture :)

And now I wanna try rock climbing as a wheelchair user just because, lol

This! I often hear certain restaurants don’t have ramps because disabled people don’t eat there. And we don’t because there’s no ramp.

Oh yeah I do see the slippery slope of this whole deal, the only thing that irked me was the wording of this comment as if xhamster is a basic human freedom, but I find that a little odd since xhamster and pornhub steal from sex workers to provide it “for free” y’know.

But with the banning of books and trans people unable to get in or out of the country… It is fucked up and scary.

Free porn is basic freedom?

I’ve read somewhere that blowing air in a vagina is super dangerous so I’m a little bit hesitant to put a blow dryer near my asshole but it does sound… Oddly comfortable

As someone who lives in an opposite bubble, this post was funny to me in a wholesome way. I love how respectful you’re asking this while being fucking confused.

To answer your question: none of my queer/gay friends do this gesture specifically, so it seems it is just a quirky thing he does :)

Top tier: use both