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  • I am in the group of people who can’t pass, it’d require at least FFS, and I just don’t have the money and might never have enough.

    It is a permanent sadness I have to bare, a bit like grief, but it’s also not like my life is over.

    I’ve been told a couple of times that I have to keep going because some time in the future, things will be better, you’ll feel comfortable in your body, you’re just baby trans, etc. I think telling that to people kind of justifies the thinking that leads them to deciding that their lives aren’t worth living.

    Like I had to accept that I actually am stuck with this, and it really sucks, like really sucks, but my life is still worth living even if dysphoria will be with me forever. I would never insinuate to anyone in a similar situation that things are hopeless. Maybe one day it will be better, but I’m not betting everything on it anymore. There’s more than just trans stuff and relationships in the world.

    (Or idk, take what I say with a grain of salt. I am like terminally mentally ill and I needed to develop a nearly infinite tolerance for suffering.)