I feel pretty sure my nesting partner never really struggled with my relationship with them(my non-nesting partner), and my nesting partner has said how happy they are for me. I feel incredibly grateful that these two people place this importance on my relationships with both of them.

I am as well (edit: i agree that is one of the benefits of polyam as a relationship structure) , I think I can come back to my new “former” partner as an improved person thanks to having the good sense to see how valuable of a person there were/are to me and try to gracefully bow out for a while to really focus on growing into the kind of partner they and my nesting partner deserve.

Thank you very much!

Oh man is the NRE so strong, every buzz of my phone sets my heart aflutter

Thank goodness for Bernie and the few semi-sane senators in this instance. I cannot fathom how Zionism has such a tight grip on the USA