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  • Melbcat won’t eat her 4cyte in food and it’s an oil so is dangerous to syringe into her mouth while she fights it.

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    (You’re not supposed to give oil or paraffin based medicine to kids or animals that are struggling because of the risk of them breathing it in.)

    And I was hesitant because I wasn’t sure of some random plant oil and thought something else would work better. Only bought the 4cyte on vet recommendation. I might try and get that money back guarantee and buy something different.

    Edit: Ah shit. I’m within the 30 days but didn’t buy it from the vet, got it from Petcircle, so not eligible for money back. If you buy this get it from the vet and keep the receipt.

    She’s also possibly got a uti again so vet asap






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    I’m so sorry. I’m going through something similar and don’t really know what to suggest other than some kind of project to work on. If you have the energy or ability on top of essentials that is. Which is… a bit optimistic.

    When it’s this bad I don’t bother that much about things like putting clothes away. If they’re casual or home clothes you can just pull clean ones out of the basket.

    The eating situation is different for me but perhaps things like a bbq chook with coleslaw and bread rolls could hold you for a few days with minimum mess and effort. Tuna and rice is another good one - if it needs to be tastier than plain there was a video where someone dumped a flavoured tin into rice then crumbled in nori and mixed in sauces like chilli and mayonaise. Ensure or muesli bars is another idea to help. Peanut butter on whole wheat (I think that’s wholemeal in Australia) is a complete protein. Fried eggs on toast are a classic and those chunky soups can be a meal. You could even have a plate of random cheese, crackers and raw veg. Ginger ale and crackers are good for nausea.

    Dry shampoo is expensive but you can use sprinkled cornflour or baby powder instead if you’re leaving the house or just clip it up. Another thing that helps is to sit on the floor of the shower while it runs and watch/listen to a video on your phone while you wash your hair and brush your teeth. I would recommend the kids 3-in-1 but honestly that conditioner residue makes hair greasy again fast.

    The thoughts, I really don’t know what to do about them except keep your mind busy with something. And have one small thing you can look forward to each day if you can.

    I’m not even going to suggest medication because it’s none of my business and they don’t work for everyone. You may well have tried it all.

    It’s not just you - things are really hard. You’re probably burned out. Go easy on yourself and kind of just slowly do your best in sloth mode.













  • It’s great to have got the libs out.

    But I still feel uneasy. In addition to Cheeto Chaplin’s attacks the UK recently ruled that trans women legally aren’t women and are banned from women’s bathrooms, and so of course in Australia there have been recent protests against trans people and against anti-hate speech laws protecting LGBTIA+.

    The arsetrumpet catchphrase about not needing to be welcomed to your “own country” (it’s not white peoples country) led to it being shouted and booed at an Indigenous elder speaking at an Anzac service.

    There’s also been a lot of anti-immigration sentiments being fomented and backlash against harm reduction like injecting rooms. Even with the election over that has to have stirred a certain element up.

    Regardless of laws Australia picks up culture wars like a sponge.

    Also on a personal level there are groups that I can’t form community and solidarity with past an ideological level due to the credible risk of harm to me. 😐 I both support harm minimisation but can’t do irl outreach like volunteering with people who have been intimidating me, stealing from me and trying to break into my house.

    I could lobby for methadone to be subsidised to try and reduce the desperation and crime in my area but I don’t have the resources for activism, particularly the organised kind. I’m barely keeping myself and puss alive.

    And the left loves eating itself. I’m hesitant to get involved with any of the groups even if I was well enough. Purity spirals I’ve experienced in the past actually led to me distancing myself for a long time and it seems to be kicking up again.

    Also marginalised groups I’m trying to be an ally to online (according to actions they’ve said they want) are locked in a defensive stance, reacting with suspicion and shade.

    No idea what I could even do that wouldn’t be derided as performative and tokenistic