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Cake day: 2023年6月19日

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  • Your daughter is welcome here. We have plenty of problems here in the UK, some of those are shared with an increasingly fascist thinking world, but we also have a long history of refusing to accept it. Look back at the eras of punk, two-tone, heavy metal, new wave, you’ll find cultural movements where minorities were embraced for their differences and our shared hatred of being oppressed and divided.

    When I grew up, the National Front were openly posting up outside football stadiums trying to recruit young men to turn this country fascist. In many ways, it’s the same thing as is happening now, only they do their recruiting on social media. In some places it was able to fester, but in many others a combination of blacks, gays, punks and the everyman found themselves allied with a common hatred of fascism and we drove them out.

    I was a Londoner then, but I agree with the person suggesting Manchester as a safe spot too. I knew Blackburn a little, 30 years ago, and it was a town with some problems, but generally decent people. Maybe not where I would choose were I gay. I think most places have a decent enough group of kind people though, and I would even say to look specifically for the places where the punks and the weirdos hang out, people are safe and welcome among us whoever they are.


  • My daughter is 10 now, but your comment triggered a memory I had buried so deep it was all but forgotten.

    The rule was that we put the child on its back, undo her diaper and fold the front down, blow on her exposed nethers and then close the diaper again and wait. She immediately pees, every fucking time, I change her, she stays dry for longer, I get some fucking sleep.

    I just reminded my wife of this ritual. We laughed. Take this forgotten knowledge from survivors of the bad times, whoever might read this.








  • As someone with no interest in canning whatsoever, I just want to thank you and your fellow mod below for contributing your niche expertise and no doubt enormous amounts of time and passion to the internet.

    People call modding a thankless task, and at times like this it must surely feel that way, but countless people will have silently thanked you as they benefitted from your expertise and willingness to share it freely. You represent what humanity and science and education should really be about, for that I deeply appreciate your efforts.





  • It’s been about 5 years since I’ve really engaged at all with most of Reddit, the API drama and renewed push to populate the alternatives seems to have achieved exactly what you describe. I even think the small barrier to entry for registering an account in the Fediverse is filtering people.

    Many of us have been longing for something like this to happen.