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7 minutes agoIm sorry your sleep hasnt been too good lately! But have fun with the non-nefarious B&E dreams lol ^^
lilypad [she/her, pup/pup's]
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Cake day: October 26th, 2023
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we got this
I hate being able to see my maladaptive processes and unable to do anything about them…
I mean, powdered lube is the shit, it works way better than any other lube ive ever used, Id be using it tariffs or no.
stupid question for lube enjoyers
How long does K lube last after mixing? I cant find any information on it besides “k lube has preservatives so it doesnt go bad after mixing!” but nothing says how long until it does go bad…
Hiii! Gotta make the number go up! Since youll read this when you wake: how did you sleep?
Scheduled my first laser session
Played my first session of shadowdark ever (with new people no less!) and it was so funnnnnnn!!!
sex
Hey so like terminal encounter said, kill that shit. Im a person who really struggles to orgasm from a partner, and prefer to use a vibrator or similar (even then it can take a long time). When i have sex it isnt in order to reach orgasm, its to enjoy myself and have fun with my partner!
If you/your partner want orgasms absolutely discuss how to make that happen, but dont let it get into your head as the “goal” of sex, or even worse equating not giving your partner an orgasm with failure.
That sounds so fun! I hope the weekend at yours is just as lovely, if not moreso, than this weekend!
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Chat is this mega gonna pop off like the last one?
I know that
Up with trans
Down with cis
update: im not absolutely rizzless (cw kink)
Turns out im not as rizzless as i thought, had a vibe check with someone that escalated and i ended up being her chewtoy (well, more like nibbletoy) for a little while
a good time was had by all
sex toys
I use J lube and find it to be the best lube ive tried. You have to mix it before you play tho, so that might be a turn off. But mixing it us easy enough.
Stick to water based lube imo. Silicon lube can damage toys. Idk about oil based lube, i dont use it.
Keep your dildo stored clean and dry; as long as its clean it doesnt really matter.
Clean your dildo after every use.
cw meeting people from apps and communication issues because texting sucks
I hate texting. Its a terrible medium for getting to know someone. Always worrying if im being to blunt/direct or not blunt/direct enough… Never able to gauge the others reaction accurately… Anyway check back in tomorrow to see if ive completely fumbled things with this femme impact top. Shes hot chat, shes cool and bikes around to bookshops! Heres hoping my dry ass texting didnt turn her off the idea of some pickup play together.
cw sex, kink
Impact play is a type of kink that involves, well, impact. Everything from spanking to paddling to flogging to whipping to more. An impact top/dom inflicts impact on the bottom/sub
cw sex
Talking to a femme impact top… Shes hot chat, i hope it works out ^^
4·4 days agoHey maybe remove that slur from your final sentence
The most insurmountable hurdle 🙃