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Cake day: April 25th, 2026

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  • Yep. I’ve thought about letting my smart phone go but it’s actually a far harder thing - I need a smart phone to make my livelihood most importantly. Also overseas family, friends. The most I can do is switch it off for a while.

    Smart appliances like fridges, washing machines, etc are for the most part a luxury. I think we’re at a point where we need to stop engaging with the internet in every aspect of our life so yeah those unnecessary ones are easy to omit 😅


  • Most of those would have been better marketing ideas than the ad I was speaking about lol. I just bought up the grocery store one because, marketing wise, I think that’s something everyone could relate to. Staring at a screen instead of opening the door isn’t particularly relatable 😅 start with the basics.

    There’s a difference. I couldn’t work without my smartphone - I couldn’t actually do my job and live. That’s very different than a smart fridge lol.

    I think in the world we’re in where everything is online all the time, recorded, uploaded, collected, targeted, etc. we can be more selective about where we actually need to involve technology and where it’s really just not enough of a benefit to bother. Not everything needs to be connected to the internet or be “smart”, AI etc. That might look different for different people but I think as individuals we don’t need to buy every single appliance to have smart features just because it exists 🤷‍♀️






  • I’m somewhere in the middle. Big introvert (actually I’m autistic) and I really isolated after a bad friendship broke down years ago, not the first time. I just didn’t want to put myself back out there and keep getting hurt. I was also sick of the thing people say like “let’s hang out sometime” and then nothing ever happens. It’s just a polite saying apparently? So I stopped taking those statements as any interest in a friendship.

    Relatively recently, a coworker said the whole we should hang out thing and I was sigh this again. We got along so well at work but I didn’t trust that let’s hang out sometime crap. Until one day she actually pulled her diary out and was like when are you free. Anyway now we’re actually friends and hang out quite a bit!

    It’s the kind of person you let in I think. I was taken advantage of so many times and in toxic friendships I assumed that’s just what friendships were. They don’t have to be. You just have to know when to let those relationships go and how to recognize the friendships that are actually fulfilling!


  • Yep, same with drinks especially acidic stuff! I was told NOT to brush straight after juice, soda, etc. because it actually screws up your enamel. Bit late, my enamel is fkd but yeah my dentist said to wait an hour after drinking and eating. And then not to have anything including water for half an hour after brushing! They say to leave a coating of toothpaste on my teeth for as long as possible after brushing. I hate it honestly lol, I always want water 😭

    Growing up I was definitely told the opposite lol especially with vomiting and with soft drink (soda, coke etc)!



  • Yeah in a nutshell, you’re right in these details. Obviously a lot more to it but a portion of this case is about the failure - on a wider scale than just this woman - of the healthcare system and the lack of understanding around women’s health. Unfortunately, as happens on the internet, there’s little room for nuance. As soon as someone mentions this they can be assumed to be defending the actions of Clancy.

    It’s possible to believe that Clancy did the wrong thing (duh) and recognize the failure of the health system and the bigger discussion that this brings up around conditions that aren’t recognized enough even by professionals.

    It’s an emotive topic, as it should be, so a lot of people just aren’t able to have logical discussions around it. It’s so bloody sad and I think the discussions it evokes, when logical, are extremely important in reducing the risks of these kinds of cases (or similar).






  • As an Aussie, I feel you’re slightly over exaggerating our weather here lol. At least in recorded weather temps, 50 is definitely rare and doesn’t happen on an annual basis (thank fuck).

    I keep up with the news somewhat in the UK due to family and just general interests that take my algorithm that way lol. Surprisingly they actually HAVE had water restrictions in parts of the UK! Similar to the ones we’ve had. Their water levels are at a record low at the moment.

    It’s interesting - I think that the UKs weather, at least in terms of just the temp number, has changed more than it has here over the last decade. I could be wrong, haven’t looked at the data. But I know they are getting days that really are unusually hot for them. Getting to 30 used to be whoa in England, let alone 35 so their weather has seemed to increase in a way I don’t think has been as noticeable here.

    And I say that as someone who detests summer lol. Melbourne btw, this could be location dependent of course. I just haven’t noticed a big, detectable for the average person kind of shift like that. I guess for me the equivalent would be like if we were getting - weather in Winter in the cities (outside of the very early morning!).

    Other difference though is that UK homes are not at all built for warm weather (let alone hot) so the average person will definitely notice it more over there. Here, split systems or having heating and cooling separately is common so we may not notice changes quite as much. The fact that more UK homes are starting to install A/C points to a significant change.

    Point is that of course, it’s all relative. A country that has many who can remember the height of summer days reaching 20 degrees 😅 now having regular 30 degrees days annually in Summer (and the occasional 35 ~5 day streak) is a big deal to them.


  • Interesting comment. I was only thinking the other day about how Luddite is always casually used as an insult, as someone who can’t accept change just because they’re stubborn, elderly, old fashioned, etc. I’m very anti AI, particularly generative AI so I was kinda thinking shit, am I a Luddite, next thought was but…is that a bad thing? AI does have a lot of problems and isn’t being regulated or controlled - it’s only growing more powerful and harmful while governments drag their feet. It’s absolutely dehumanising in so many ways.

    I will do some research on luddites as I really don’t know enough - only the term thrown around casually as a negative!