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  • OP, this one right here.

    I feel a bit out of place because I’m cis het but I went through a divorce with a lot of communication and no ill will. Soon after the divorce my ex wife started dating a woman and seemed much happier. We didn’t have kids, so that also made the conversation smoother, but it was far from the horror stories I’ve heard about ugly divorces.

    This communication with your partner will be one of your biggest assets, the other one being introspection. Knowing how you value your feelings of divorce vs dysmorphia is crucial and will be your guide. Definitely worth finding a couples therapist who specifically deals with trans concerns would be a huge help navigating your feelings.