

Partner and I recently had our first kid, and it’s the best thing we’ve ever done. Also the most stressful.
We did wait though until our mid thirties, and that seems to be more normal now. I can’t imagine having a kid when my parents did, I don’t know how people can afford that now.
I don’t think it has anything to do with the quality of your recommendations. People have limited time. With Avatar - you are asking that someone commit to 3 seasons of a children’s show that they probably already understand the gist of through its place in culture.
From their perspective - I think in the moment it sounds exciting to get a recommendation and feel like you’ll definitely make time for it but then you get home and it’s the next day and you’d rather spend your limited time on your own stuff.
I’m sorry that they aren’t reciprocating but unfortunately there really isn’t a solution here. This will be the case with the vast majority of recommendations your whole life. I wouldn’t read too much into it.