it’s neither. the fuck is possessive, like “for pete’s sake” or “for god’s sake.” it’s for the sake of the fuck.

• any of my many black t-shirts… i’m not really into fashion lol
• I finished my transition, but best thing was top surgery
• black panthers

we have always been here and we always will be. you cannot get rid of us.

that didn’t take long

straight from the dungeons of tumblr’s thrussy era: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YY7jONjGiwk

this has been in my head since i saw this post dammit

This reminds me of a book I read by Oliver Sacks a while ago, Seeing Voices. It was about deaf people and how their visual language allows them to perceive the world so much differently from hearing people. And how they became burdened with the label “deaf and dumb” when no one around them could give them a way to communicate.

seems like this is how most AAA game launches go nowadays

if you want an opinion go to a blog

Sengi

ironic that they’re still using X to post about such things

ever since i stopped buying games from steam i’ve been playing only my backlog on there, and it is indeed very freeing. love the quick dopamine hit from checking something off a list.

keeping an updated list of games like on this blog looks like a fun idea, might start doing it in Obsidian.

Are “being a femboy” and “being a trans man” mutually exclusive?

Nah, not at all, some trans men do identify as femboys or even twinks. Personally I don’t get too into specific labels like that but I don’t care if others see me that way. It can actually be the opposite of dysphoric, because the transphobic types will assume I’m a man who’s trying to be femme or transitioning to a woman and emphatically call me sir like to remind me I’m a man, lol.

Do people like, openly treat you like that and acknowledge it, or is it more subtle than that?

Sometimes openly, yeah, I’ve had a coworker ask me if I was gay after weeks of like clearly wanting to say something. But usually it’s more subtle, like in the way some guy in a group will talk to the other guys different from the way I get spoken to, or they share looks between each other like “this fuckin guy, eh.” Or they’ll joke about how I might need help lifting something because of how lanky I am. I’m obviously the bookish nerdy type not into sports and going to the gym, and I don’t have a big build.

places like comic book shops or sports teams or garages/autohobby shops. I guess like, not places that specifically exclude women, but places where its more common to see groups of men

In my experience the treatment isn’t that bad. It’s like any time you’re out among people you don’t know, people are just polite. Maybe if I was on a sports team or went to the gym a lot it’d be different.

Thanks. Yeah trans men get so much shit, I don’t even wanna get into it… What would you consider a traditional male space? The only place I can think of is the gym, but women go there too.

Either way… I don’t really go out much though, tbh. I’m mostly a loner, just go to work, read books, play video games. Sometimes go out to a concert if I have the money. I don’t have any IRL friends.

In my experience, guys just see me as some gay femboy instead of a trans man. I don’t really come out unless it becomes relevant or I meet another queer person.

https://archive.is/4DUiH

by being poor and not able to afford a lot of food

but where were they on J6 huh

So if I just use the desktop app and not the browser extension then I’m good?

tbh the reliability of any government data right now is questionable

the only frontend alternative i know is imginn but i think you can only enter an account name, not a link to a specific post :/

of all the problems facing humanity that we could be solving right now, they’re focused on gay sex and trans people… fuckin priorities.