I’m a systems librarian in an academic library. I moved over the Lemmy after Rexxit 2023. I’ve had an account on sdf.org since 2009 (under a different username), and so I chose this instance out of a sense of nostalgia. I do all sorts of fiber arts (knitting, cross stitch, sewing) and love dogs.

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  • grysboktoHumor@lemmy.worldYes, But
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    9 months ago

    That makes sense. I was raised Southern [USA], so I can fake polite conversation with the best of them. If anything, I’m too chatty if the checkout clerk gives the slightest sign of talkativeness.


  • grysboktoHumor@lemmy.worldYes, But
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    9 months ago

    same. The local self checkouts are a sensory nightmare for me. There’s blinking lights I can’t avoid, a camera+screen I can’t ignore… I just can’t deal with it.

    local home depot only has self checkout. I don’t go there any more.





  • grysboktotumblr@lemmy.worldLive your truth
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    9 months ago

    LGBTQA+ people can be tunnel-visioned about their “flavor” of queer. I was once told by a lesbian that of course I wouldn’t know about a specific Boston queer housing mailing list—I have a boyfriend.

    Never mind I’m ace, non-binary, and polyamorous [which may or may not be queer, but is at least queer adjacent]. Like, yeah. I’m not LG. I can still be BTQA+.




  • grysboktotumblr@lemmy.worldLive your truth
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    9 months ago

    ooh, be careful. That sounds like a public display of affection. You’d get sent up the principal’s office at my high school.

    (why yes, my autistic ass took decades before I became comfortable breaking that ingrained rule, even after graduation. Thanks, Kentucky.)


  • Yep. I just don’t tend to have tasks that require much state, they’re all pretty easy to pick up or put down.

    I’ve had positions where I would get in the zone and didn’t want to be interrupted, I get how that feels. It’s lovely. I used to sit and rework test cases to handle updated requirements across dozens of files, back when I was in QA doing automated testing.


  • This study emphasizes to me that I’m not a dev, I’m the library’s designated techie (aka a systems librarian). I do write scripts, but mostly I maintain servers, help coworkers with CSS, and figure out what obscure setting is assigning unwanted overdue book fines (under Configuration Menu > Fulfillment > Physical Fulfillment > Advanced Policy Configuration, naturally).

    I enjoy interruptions because they help me prioritize my day.


  • Our understanding of how words work is different and that is ok. We’ve clearly communicated how we each interpret the phrase, so there’s no misunderstanding in this case and we are unlikely to encounter the same phrase together again in the wild.

    edit: root disagreement is that you believe the adverb “explicitly” cannot modify the verb “imply”, whereas I believe it can. I doubt either of us will convince the other.





  • My dad died of COVID a month before he was eligible for the vaccine. I’m still sore about that. I don’t want to be the disease vector that leads to someone’s death.

    My partner’s girlfriend’s boyfriend is immunocompromised. My partner has a history of illness that might make him more susceptible to COVID. At the beginning of the pandemic, we negotiated that we would both mask outside the home and we’ve renegotiated that I’ll not mask in some low-risk settings, but stores are still on the “must mask” list.