

not only is there no clear record of him saying this but here’s a thing he did actually say:
The family is being destroyed where it should have been strengthened. Shameful relationships between people, which Holy Scripture says is a grave sin, are now being considered normal. And if sin becomes the norm, what does that mean? It means the advent of the one who wants to erase the boundaries between good and evil, sin and sanctity. source
I agree with what you’re getting at here but I think we also can’t deprive ourselves of the ability to call a spade a spade on this one. I think the term incel should absolutely be fair game to disparage genuine self-identified incels or those who clearly fit the mold, but it shouldn’t be a term to lob around against people for an individual questionable take - this has the potential to do severe damage to sensitive/vulnerable comrades, a lot of whom are probably neurodiverse and fight RSD.
Use incel to talk about how /r/braincel users deserve the wall. Don’t use incel to disparage people for bad takes that are correctable with patient but firm dialogue.