No need to make up being unfathomably miserable when gender dysphoria is clearly killing you. You cannot carry on like this, so please just tell your therapist every bit of the truth. If they refuse to believe you, they are completely failing at their jobs and are a disgrace to the practice.

a cute nerdy twink; truly blessed ( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡°)

I’ve never fully understood the mindset that compels some guys to be so awful, but some guys really are shitheads. It does seem largely social, but it’s also extra enticing to cis guys over other folk. Being told you’re special and deserve to be in charge for being yourself is a seductive message, just like the argument for white supremacy or ultra nationalism.

It doesn’t mean all men will get roped in or that any need to stay in, but it is still a real threat that it isn’t your responsibility to solve. Keep yourself safe before sacrificing for others.

Honestly, part of the problem isn’t just with your therapist, but the outdated gatekeepy system in your county that wants to “prove” your transness before helping you. Evidence does not support this approach, which is why many places have moved away from unnecessary delays

You are in a bad place mentally, and there is a good chance that gender dysphoria is the main cause. Sometimes people have no choice but to come out and affirm their gender, as they are unable to even function otherwise.

I thought I could delay coming out, but I just hadn’t realized how bad things were. More importantly, I never realized how good things would be once I left that worn out mask behind. It really held me back from everything. My fears were nothing in comparison to the horror I was living, and the joys were more than I dreamed.

cute girls gotta be careful about being too inviting to dudes. you sadly gotta watch out for ppl in your dms if you comment like that too often

omg, it actually tracks

it’s debatable if TES dragons even have gender

sponsored gifs can get fucked

tfw gendered number 🙄

“mostly” carrying the weight of the world there

careful there smorty, ur saying some dangerous things 🤭

you sound like a cutie in need of affirmation <3

guys do need more compliments, but catcalls feel more like harassment than appreciation.

smorty!!! if your therapist was properly serving you, you wouldn’t be trauma dumping to us as often as you do. she’d have affirmed your gender ages ago and wouldn’t have fucked around for so long. you keep blaming yourself like someone in an abusive relationship!

I’ve had these problems with your therapist for months, long before i ever talked with adora about them, so don’t think I’m angry because of her. i get really upset when therapists “wait and see” or question a person’s identity when they’re so clearly trans

it’s not the lines that are straight, but your perception 乁⁠༼⁠☯⁠‿⁠☯⁠✿⁠༽⁠ㄏ

so long as it’s not your current therapist ;3

25 year old me looking at how stupid 25 year old me is today ƪ(˘⌣˘)ʃ

omg same!!! i miss rif

it’s a beautiful place mired by an evil empire

and a lot of us introverts used it as an excuse to say no to people for a couple years 😁