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Cake day: September 3rd, 2025

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  • Hey, I’m going to straight up tell you to let her go from a friend perspective… trying to be an ex’s friend especially after feeling taken advantage of is a great way to feel like you’ve been taken advantage of again…ask me how I know haha, it hurt like hell at the moment but if your ex wants to be your friend they will be…it doesn’t take work.

    For example my best friend growing up…haven’t spoken since 05 right after college (I’m old)…I moved to his area and reached out …it was like no time had passed…

    Best way I can put it, a real friend is willing to help you move for no other reason than they like you… would she help you move?


  • That’s hard… I’d first suggest exploring the “not clicking” aspect. It’s easy to get focus on that part instead of focusing on being the best you possible. That confidence will bring folks who do click into your orbit and vice versa.

    Stop worrying about being good enough or clicking, you will never click if you are trying to click.

    Good luck!

    Edit: as for the being used part, don’t make yourself so available all the time. Done rush to be the solution machine when it’s always something involving your time or money. Your time is valuable and you can’t just drop everything to accommodate.