Pisha [she/her, they/them]

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Cake day: December 23rd, 2020

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  • I’ve got to vent a bit. In my local org, we’ve got a subgroup (just a group chat) to prepare the agenda for the next meeting. I created a text document and put some topics in it, but received no reply of any kind. Now, there’s some current events happening, there was an optional meeting I skipped and people got together and created their own agenda. And it’s perfectly fine; it contains everything I wrote down and other, more important things. It’s just that the work I did was completely useless and nobody even bothered to tell me. These social interactions are very stressful to me and I have to make quite an effort to contain my emotions. This is really just my own problem, but I’m upset that I’m upset for no good reason.





  • Thanks for the good answer! I do have an advantage in that I’m privately insured – something I’m thankful for every time I get involved with doctors about trans stuff – so a private therapist sounds like an option. Would you happen to know if there any good ones in, like, Berlin or Hamburg or so? I always get quite anxious when contacting therapists so I’d rather not do multiple telephone calls just to get blown off because of the wait list.

    I’ll get an appointment at one of the places in Munich. Incidentally, I’ve had a preliminary talk at Uniklinik Essen and the experience was uncomfortable enough that I decided against them – can’t actually speak about the quality of the surgeries though.



  • Genuinely how on earth do you misinterpret the themes of a film so poorly lmao.

    I don’t appreciate that tone. Her accepting her sexuality ends in her having sex with what you call the “embodiment of male sexual domination” and then they both die. How does that make sense? It seems like everyone save the men loses out from her accepting her sexuality. And I don’t think it’s very coherent how the movie shows that sexual desire cannot be controlled – except via marriage – because that has murderous consequences, which can, however, also be resolved through sexual desire. I just don’t feel like the metaphors here work together and that is what I meant by “incomprehensible”.

    To put it more clearly: In the Eggers films I’ve seen, every woman either ends up dead or part of a childremoved cult and I don’t think women who suffer are automatically a sign of feminist politics.


  • It’s so bad! You can’t see a thing, there’s a magic exposition man, everyone constantly talks for no reason and the message appears to be that women having sexual desires causes the plague. Like, Werner Herzog did this movie already and Eggers instead decided to crib most of the changes for his version from Francis Ford Coppola (and from The Exorcist, the scariest movie of all time (!)). I should have realized after watching The VVitch that he’s just another middlebrow director with weird gender hang-ups that get lauded for being incomprehensible. Also, what kind of filmmaker is unable to make a movie set in the current day? Seriously now.




  • Some of the saddest characters online have got to be writing influencers. Posting about the nobleness of art all day and how unrewarding and tough the life of a writer is, commiserating with others in the know about how those fools just don’t appreciate the harsh realities of the publishing industry – and never actually posting any writing. I mean I literally never see anyone recommending their stories or their magazines. It’s just self-aggrandizement based on the idea of accomplishment rather than actual accomplishment.

    Can you tell I got mad about social media again?