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  • My advice is yeah maybe she’s just not quite ready yet. There’s only so far encouragement will take her, she has to want to for herself. My eldest is now fully autonomous, but it did take another year after that initial 2-2.5yo curiosity for the drive to be there to go themself. Just make sure the option is there for her, be there to help, they dont need rewards, stickers etc. being nice about the messes and gentle reassurance without pressure is the best thing you can do for them! Good luck!







  • I think the main thing is they have the tiredness, they just need a sort of meditative state. Some like music, some need lights on intense Lego, even screen time can chill some minds to the right state. I wouldn’t rule anything out, and it’ll probably change with time. It’s like they’re all spikey in the brain and you need to smooth that shit out with an activity, and for some kids that’s dark and quiet, bless them, others, it’s not.