What wonderful progress you’ve made!!

Titty envy over here…

POV me when I am playing cities skylines and I plop city services in “optimal central location”

I don’t know if I can deal with another goddamn holiday season of Christian bullshit.

Then don’t. If they don’t respect you they earn no respect back. And it sounds like you’re independent of them, so not much they can hold over your head. Then you gotta tell them straight, “hey, since you won’t respect my life I will not be at any holiday events this year, don’t contact me.”

I’ve heard at least one story in person of a trans person going NC and it sort of waking the parents up to “oh. We just lost our kid because we’ve been assholes. Fuck.”. No guarantees but it could happen, because it can be quite a jolt even to evangelicals who still think they can" fix" their kid who’s “in a phase”.

Sending love and hugs sister (づ ᴗ _ᴗ)づ♡

oo thanks for the recommendation. I’m gonna get cheap bra pads first but if I like the look I’ll try some forms too Thank you sister 💖💖

ong why can’t I just look like that

and what language is afforded to us to develop self-understanding

Oh how everything has to be so strictly subdivided among only two genders. I never realized how annoying I found that until the past couple months.

Thank you friend 💖

I have a long term amazing partner that I’m already planning to marry so I’m not too worried about not being taken care of sexually or emotionally… Her libido is higher than mine by many orders of magnitude lol.

Sex being a longer but more fulfilling experience sounds like it would be preferred to me. Like, I just can’t get engaged enough in my current mind to make it last more than maybe 30 minutes without forcing it and then I get tired and grumpy. It seems like going on HRT changes all that and y’all speak very highly of it which is making me begin to want it…

Uh, is your experience written with or without bottom surgery? I don’t know I’m ever brave enough to go that far but the thought is still floating around in there.

Thank you for your input girl I really appreciate it 💖 y’all are amazing

Yeah I feel ya, I’ve had prostate O’s before, usually in addition to stimulating the front and they are very intense. It’s really dependent on warming up and being in right headspace else it doesn’t feel that good vs. just jacking off. But the envy is still there because that takes so much extra prep and doesn’t always work out.

!direct_donations@lemmy.dbzer0.com may be another resource

Godspeed sister, sending hugs (づ ᴗ _ᴗ)づ♡

reall

Yeah the vibe I’m getting is there’s a lot of cheap ways to try out the appearance long before I get as far as buying real forms or those bra buddies. I’ll probably amazon some regular bra pads and try them first. Cuz Man, if everything else unclockable makes is garbage I’d hate to support their company.

oh man another hobby to learn right now might not be my first choice lol

BUT those do look comfy and I bet I could make them work…

Yeah kinda feeling I’ll probably just Amazon some bra with some extra pads and see how it looks on me lol

fuck if you can grow them that good at 31 there’s still hope for me

I had same issue, something about my Samsung phone exported a malformed jpg when I downloaded and edited an image.

If you can send the photo to another device or a PC and re-save it to jpg it might clear the problem

ahh thank you

I knew there had to be something like that didn’t know word

now I guess I gotta try and find a bra to stuff things in…

Yeah, I might see if I can get a hold of some and try it for a couple days.

Nah. Cats are the supreme court.

They judge you based on some secret undescribed rules they care not to share with the public, stare down at you from their pulpit, and generally answer to no-one

I feel kinda same. I’m still questioning but I’ve begun to realize that being a man is not something I really every leaned into in my life, it was just like. A label applied and I did nothing to support or deny it. It was a thing just vaguely attached to myself. Dressing myself was always practical first with no care to color or coordination (jeans, belt, and long sleeve cotton shirts is about the only thing I’ve ever worn for my entire life, farm work necessitates it) and I have like, 3 dress shirts and a single pair of black slacks total for “fancy” events.

But I went and bought a skirt and some thigh highs on a whim last month from Amazon and upon putting them on, almost immediately I find myself thinking about color coordination, accessories, ways to combine different things that accentuate my hips, and WHOOF. Suddenly I am left wondering if my not caring about gender appearance was just bottling my feelings lol.