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  • Mesophar@pawb.socialtoBeavers@lemmy.worldBeaver dam
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    3 hours ago

    That’s what I figured. If it was raining over the clear part of the river, I’d assume all the runoff from the land around it would make it muddy as well. The heavy storm is probably up river and washing all the muddy water down, until it gets blocked by the beaver dam.



  • Until it is mentioned (often afterwards), how would one know the person is neurodivergent? Is it fine to correct someone making those mistakes who are neurotypical?

    I think how the correction is made is the differing factor, because you can never have complete information about the people you reply to on a platform like this.

    On the other side, there is definitely a time and place to correct people for simple mistakes, especially if you still understand what they mean. Replying to someone asking for help in a matter is probably not one of those times. Replying to someone pointing out other mistakes or lack of knowledge, I think, is a fine place to make corrections (respectfully).

    Especially if no one is called out by name and insults aren’t being used.






  • I got divorced from a 10+ year relationship in my late 20s, and then had a nasty, bad breakup from my first relationship after at 30. I had a small group of friends that stuck around, but lost many in the process of each breakup.

    I never really kept in touch with people from highschool and earlier, though, so I can’t comment on them

    Things do get better. At 35 I’m now in a better relationship than I ever had before. I have new friends and new circles. A new chapter in my life was started, and things are better than they ever have been before.

    I don’t know if this will work for you, maybe it doesn’t work out sometimes. But guys can, and do, recover from it.