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  • InquisitiveApathy@lemm.eeto196@lemmy.worldMeow rule
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    3 days ago

    We’ve got an automatic feeder too and mine does the same thing. About a half hour before it goes off he’ll meow up a storm because he thinks I control it. We do get some cathartic payback though.

    Our feeder has the ability to record an audio clip to play when it goes off and it has come with some entertaining Pavlovian side-effects. When the mic engages it makes a crackling sound that sounds kind of like a pig oinking. So now if I oink at my cat and call him a little piggy he expects food and sits next to the feeder waiting 😂












  • I didn’t want to elaborate originally because this is a meme community after all, but one of the biggest things I will say is that being gripped with alcoholism truly felt like living life as a stunted person in arrested development. Between the constant drunk/hangover cycle, the depression and anxiety, and just the general shame it felt impossible to maintain the consistency necessary to truly grow as a person.

    I was very aware of how problematic my behavior was from the beginning, but that didn’t make it any easier. My father died in a sudden accident a month or two after my 21st and alcohol was my coping mechanism. It sucks to feel like I now have to refigure out who I am in my 30’s and reconcile with all the lost time, but today is always better than never.

    Glad to hear you successfully made it to this point as well ☺️



  • If you don’t already know, Dawnshard is an interlude novella that takes place between book 3 and 4 in the series. It expands on some world history that was only touched on and mostly adds a lot of context for things for the next books. My partner read the first interlude novella, Edgedancer, without reading any of the other books and didn’t have any issues. If you’ve read the entirety of The Way of Kings you’ll probably have enough environmental and worldbuilding context to kind of figure out what’s going on at least.

    Possibly very minor spoilers

    The story centers around a character who was already introduced to you in the interlude chapters of TWoK, Rysn. Rysn lost the use of her legs during an accident and was given a pet Larkin, which is a small dragon/lizard creature that feeds off Stormlight, as a condolence.

    Some of the overarching political things might go over your head, but really nothing is important enough that you won’t understand the book itself. The big gist of it all is that a big war between good and evil just started at the end of the previous book, but none of it is very important to this book except as a backdrop.

    Aside from that there are a few characters that have the same powers as Kaladin came into in TWoK. They only have powers because they are his subordinates.


  • Speaking from a US cultural standpoint, most people don’t do this though. Because of this if someone asks “how are you doing?,” there is a script that runs in my brain that just translates it to mean “Hello.”

    There’s nothing more soul crushing than showing emotional vulnerability and then promptly being told you’re a burden and have misinterpreted abstract social signals. Always better to just…not 🤷