I’m not sure if you’re joking, but either way there’s a lot that could be said here.
It’s not that Marx hates the poors, which is a bit absurd to accuse him of, but I do think his class analysis of the lumpen is somewhat misguided, and this error is still commonly made by leftists to this day*. Part of the problem is using lumpenproletariat as a catch-all class for people who subsist without participating in productive labor. Within that category there are so many different ways that people might relate to production, meaning there can be huge differences in their class character, hence it being imo problematic to call the lumpenproletariat a class at all. But even if we do, maybe we shouldn’t be lumping all NEETs in with the lumpen.
For example, a NEET who chooses to be NEET because they have a rich (bourgeois or labor aristocracy) family that takes care of all of their needs is going to have significantly different class interests compared to say someone who has lived in destitution most of their life and is forced to turn to pickpocketing, prostitution, or selling drugs in order to survive (the latter few being traditional examples of lumpenproletariat). There are other conditions that can produce NEETS who would have class characteristics more like those traditional lumpen examples or even that of regular proletariat, like people who are barely able to subsist on disability, and have little choice but to live like hermits. In other words, NEETs can be all over the place as far as actual class character, but then again, so can any lumpen.
(*In the linked thread, OP @Frank@hexbear.net was correct. When I said there is an error that leftists make to this day, I am referring to many of the responses he got.)
Taking violence off the table only benefits the ones who already claim a monopoly on violence.
Violence is already completely normalized as political speech, but only in the direction of it being used by the state and against the people. It’s totally normalized for fascist ICE agents to brutally abduct people off the street, for cops to murder people (especially people of color) without consequence, or to go into homeless encampments beating and cracking the skulls of the people trying to survive there while torching their meager possessions, for small armies of militarized police to kettle and gas protesters (those people who aren’t even using violence themselves but are still doing what they can to oppose its use by the state to conduct genocide), and beating them until they’re literally blind. And this isn’t even beginning to get into the utter normalization of the unimpeded mass murder of people in the global south to more easily steal their resources.
What is not normalized is specifically the use of violence by regular people aimed at the state. That is the taboo. That is what the pearl-clutching liberals immediately denounce as dangerous to “democracy” (because it is a threat to bourgeois dictatorship). But it’s a taboo that has to be broken if there is to ever be any hope of positive change happening within the imperial core. If it’s a slippery slope to normalize violence against the state, then let’s get to sliding down it! The statistics presented in this article, if they’re to be believed, are a hopeful sign.