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Cake day: March 28th, 2026

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  • Been regularly going to a UU church (I’m an atheist but it’s not a religious church it’s about being a good person through service and community) and been volunteering at the food bank more and more, actually spent most of today at the food bank doing just that. It’s been an uphill battle but I’m starting to socialize more and maybe even have some budding friendships starting.

    So much advice is to lean on your support system but when you don’t have one what are you supposed to do? So I decided to basically just start from scratch and so far so good



  • CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.worldtome_irl@lemmy.worldme irl
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    20 hours ago

    I have that iron trap memory that stubbornly holds onto waaaay too much and I still do it this. Most things actually are inconsequential, what takeout I get for example is completely irrelevant. I don’t need to think about it (very much) so why am I? I’d like to use my brain power on things that actually matter to me not sweating the small stuff.