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Cake day: October 6th, 2023

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  • Crikeste@lemm.eetomemes@lemmy.worldTrue
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    2 days ago

    It’s neither, honestly. Great question, really.

    I’ll be honest: I’m an alcoholic finally doing the work to never touch that shit again. So in that, I’ve been doing a lot of “finding myself”. I’ve been trying to be a bit more conscious of things and to also do a lot less sitting around playing video games and watching YouTube and Twitch. And I’ve found that being in a nice space is really comforting, so I started working on my tidiness. And that’s where I found those things I mentioned.

    I wouldn’t say it’s coming from my family, it might not even be coming from me. It feels like a “societal” thing. I hate to use this example, but like Jordan Petersen saying “make your bed”.

    I don’t know, I’ve also found myself feeling “worthless” in the dating and sex scene, so it’s also probably coming from there. I think “what girl would want to hangout in a shitty room?”

    I got a lot to process lmfao





  • Crikeste@lemm.eetomemes@lemmy.worldTrue
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    3 days ago

    This was very frustrating for me when I went through it. I was in a growing phase, trying to get my life on tracks, and I HATED that I could never have all my clothes I love to wear washed while still being able to wear them. Obvious, I know. But it really wasn’t something I had encountered before, because I never really cared about keeping things tidy.

    It’s funny that once you decide you want things tidy, you realize they never truly will be.

    You can clean up all the cans, but you will crack another.

    You can do all the laundry, you gotta wear it

    You can clean the plates, still gotta eat off of them