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Are we having an argument? Most likely I’m not trying to be a meanie, but I’m just struggling to understand / effectively communicate with yah.

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Cake day: August 28th, 2023

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  • Happens to a lot of (most?) people, including us late bloomers. It is okay, honestly.

    Took me two years to get over my first relationship. When I ended my last, abusive, relationship of ~6 years (on/off), I literally sat down and told myself that I wouldn’t be able to love or be loved by anyone again - It’s a cliché, I knew that at the time, but I honestly believed it. Every day for like a year, I was plagued with the simple thought “I am broken”.

    Eventually that feeling just… faded. I joined a couple local groups, and not much later I met a hecka cool person and we hit it off.

    It’s a very personal thing and it’s honestly okay to grieve a relationship for years, don’t feel bad about it. Just don’t close yourself off to the world because of it, either. In my case, spending time with people is often very helpful to renormalise and let the social bit of your brain know that all is okay, but it still takes time.






  • But the US doesn’t have the kind of centralised strategy or funds to stockpile enough anything to sustain an actual war with China.

    By gleefully engaging in mercantile trade, China has made the US dependent upon it, and the US just can’t start a war it could begin to win. Nor would the bourgeois class want to tolerate it for long because of how much it cuts into their own profits (which is clearly why they’re giving up on tariffs now).







  • The point is, even if there were septillions OF septillions, the chances in my example are STILL basically zero. My example wasn’t about specific numbers, but to exemplify how something seemingly likely (like ‘life exists elsewhere’) might actually be mind-bogglingly near-impossible. Just because I shuffled a specific card order once, doesn’t mean it will (or realistically can) happen in all the universe for all of time ever again.

    Nobody can know what’s outside the observable universe (and for all intents and purposes, nothing outside the observable universe really “exists”).

    As far as we can (possibly ever) know, there are not infinite planets. Though it’s a philosophically attractive idea, there is no evidence to suggest it’s true.




  • It really just… isn’t. All our knowledge of statistics and probability are practically useless when faced with one, singular distinct data point and no understanding of how life started.

    We’re not talking about farcically artificial stakes; if the probability of life appearing on any given square meter of any planet, every second, was, say, the odds of shuffling a specific set of cards. Then, even given 20 sextillion (2*10²²) planets, an optimistic 10³³ seconds until all stars and planets are gone, and 10¹⁴ square meters per planet, the likelihood of life appearing once, anywhere in the universe before heat death is still practically zero.

    But that’s all a guess. So long as we don’t know the likelihood of life starting, we simply cannot have a ‘default assumption’, it makes no sense. There is an altogether plausible reality where we are the be all and end all of life in the universe.


  • Reminder that it’s very easy to cover stuff in your trolley with bags. It’s often easy to just throw stuff through the checkout, look like you scanned it, and wait for an employee to unlock the till because they’re overworked. You can even leave stuff on the scanning platform so it doesn’t get weighed, and staff are unlikely to pick up on it.

    Also an important reminder that at least in the UK, shop staff have no authority to ‘check your receipt’ or any bullshit. Any random basket checks or whatever, you are completely in your rights to ignore them and leave.

    Very few shops will permit their staff to ever forcefully detain people, but legally speaking, shop staff can only detain you if they can argue reasonable belief you have committed a crime, unlike for police, just suspicion is not enough. No matter how qualified or SIA-certified a security guard is, they have no more rights than normal citizens. If they forcefully detain you and you committed no crime, you can sue for assault, wrongful imprisonment, damages, distress, etc. (compensation is usually in the thousands).

    Under no circumstances do they have a right to forcefully search you, they have to call police for that.

    Police can detain you for any reason, but they cannot search you without reasonable grounds. They cannot legally enforce nor perform a random search without reasonable grounds. If they do, sue. (obviously they have lots of get-out clauses, but there are also many successful suits for this kind of action, so it’s not a fruitless endeavour)