me when a blahaj lemmy fashlib sends me a vaush clip to support her position of approving ableist language

It can still happen 😵‍💫

I hope I don’t accidentally make the 1000th comment, that would be embarrassing

The Iran explosion made me think of this: I’ve heard Lebanese people say the Beirut explosion is rumoured to be done by Israel, is there anything written about that possibility?

I think I remember in another post you asked us to remind you to take a nap if you’re in a bad spiral so here’s that reminder comrade

ukkk is yuk

I don’t think hexbear should have outreach as goal (and I’m not sure it even does). Hexbears policies are not perfect but it’s the only space on the internet I know of where I’m not constantly confronted with bigotry and where most concerns of marginalised groups are actually taken seriously. There are plenty of spaces (even other lemmy instances) where you can educate libs if you want to.

I find the sexualisation of trans people on blahaj uncomfortable, and when I still was on there I saw a lot of unmoderated sexism and ableism.

The 196 community in general has weird vibes, I’ve heard that the 196 subreddit has many vaush fans and vaush himself is just a really weird dude who normalises fetishising trans people and drawn child sexual assault material. The lemmy 196 community is a spinoff of the subreddit and the largest community on blahaj (last time I checked). I’ve had discussions with people there who linked to vaush videos as ‘source’ for why it’s ok to behave like a jerk be ableist. I think vaush is a horrible guy and his community is toxic, and some of the main posters and mods on blahaj are part of that toxic community which explains why a lot of the problematic stuff doesn’t get removed.

Have you tried canned fruit? Like pineapple or peach is delicious in a stir fry

Let’s work hard to get to worldwide communism fast then

That’s a lot of cabbage

I hope you have a good recovery!

That’s tough, I hope you can find your peace

What did cabbage do to you?

True but whenever anything happens in the us I have to stop reading the mega because it’s 90% us stories. I’m just now back after not following the mega for a while because of the tariffs.

Vegan protein powder. Uninteresting but efficient

It’s no one’s business to know whether you have an official diagnosis. Many people aren’t able to, or choose not to get an official diagnosis for many reasons. If you have done research on autism and believe you have it then that’s valid.

Whether or not it would be beneficial to get an official diagnosis depends on your situation. If you live in the US I’d personally not get one right now since weird things are happening there and for some reason autism is one of the topics of interest for the fascists. However if you are struggling financially and there is a possibility a diagnosis could get you some benefits then that might be a reason to get a diagnosis.

It’s a joke because it sounds similar

I think it’s normal for trans people to have negative associations with the gender they were assigned at birth. It’s good to figure out the root cause of your negative feelings but you also deserve a break sometimes. Right now it seems like you need a break and accept that you’re probably trans. You have time for doubt later. If you want to be a girl then be one.

I understand it’s difficult, but you can always go back to not being a girl if you realise you were wrong (which is unlikely).