Athena5898 [any]

Learning what I can, doing my best.

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  • For me, idk even if they are in various stages of undress its still kind of meh.

    I find a lot of “conventionally attractive” women presentation often to be kind of boring. Don’t even get me started on porn.

    Idk, there just is something about a person when they are dressed how they want to and what they think looks good for them. I’m still going to be looking at boobs that are obviously “Hello!” about it. But idk one of the first times I got gay panic when I realized I was a lesbian was this punk looking women in the super market with a chain and short hair tossing a can casually into the air. I rushed to the freezer section where my wife found me and teased me to no end. (We are poly)

    Idk if any of this makes sense? I will say I’m also on the ace spectrum. But I just often feel like this. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Y2Y5KVtU810

    (Bonus story. Cause people probably going to be like “you have a wife? How did you not know you were a lesbian??” Me and my wife are trans kind of in the opposite direction. I’m genderfluid butch. One day after she found out about herself. I was complaining about the guys in stardew and how all these farming Sims have better girls then guys. She paused and looked at me and said “babe…I think you might be a lesbian.” So yeah my wife had to tell me I was gay. I reflected and I realized she was right. So that is a fun thing to tell people)





  • God I’ll never not be furious when I was covering the people that controlled our local bus system and the ghouls (who never set foot on a bus) just sat and laughed at the idea of electric buses. Repeating right wing talking points.

    And any time I complain about these old rich white ghouls being in control of everything. I just get a shrug and “well we are lucky to even have a bus system”

    Meanwhile the mayor has put in some car dealership goon on the board!

    Why do we have to be thankful for scrapes!










  • Let’s just say I’ve really enjoyed being here compared to other places online.

    IRL I run into the opposite problem with my friend groups. Various journeys and learning in a very liberal area in a red state. It gets complicated sometimes. But we are getting there slowly. Even if I do have to clench my jaw so hard to not just plunge people into the deepend who clearly can’t handle it.

    This one bi guy in our group would be great with theory and putting it in a practical use with rules and guidelines. But he’s still stuck in electorialism hell. Thankfully we are decently frank about what we want and protecting people so I’m not worried about that. But you can’t exactly walk up to someone and put Marx, Lenin, etc in front of someone with out setting off the minesweeper in the brain. So it’s taking some time and a lot of patience when I’m normally about as subtle as a bull in a china shop.

    But I’m off the point and rambling now.