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autismdragon [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net to the_dunk_tank@hexbear.netEnglish · 1 year ago

Oh no, women choosing partners based on qualities other than looks or money? crazy

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Oh no, women choosing partners based on qualities other than looks or money? crazy

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autismdragon [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net to the_dunk_tank@hexbear.netEnglish · 1 year ago
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  • RyanGosling [none/use name]@hexbear.net
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    When women only like the top 1% of men and deep pockets

    “WHORE!”

    When women don’t only like the top 1% of men and deep pockets

    “WHORE!”

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    What’s wrong with them? Why won’t women date me? I’m an alpha.

    -–

    Where to start…

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      quark 69th Rule of Acquisition: FEmales can smell alpha anxiety.

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    Women be saying for decades “I don’t care about looks or money I just want to date a decent human being who shares my interests and ideals.”

    And men be like “Nah but what do you really mean.”

    Like holy shit maybe listen to what women say instead of insisting they’re all liars. People don’t like being assumed liars for a start so maybe that has something to do with why these fucks can’t get a gf.

    So many sexist motherfuckers trying to avoid the obvious answer that women won’t date them because they’re sexist or have niche interests that make them incompatible.

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      I know a guy like this. He doesn’t think he’s some alpha male, but he thinks they’re all liars, liberal, want to be disrespected, and have a child-like mind. He tells me that he constantly lies about his views and say whatever to get him closer to getting laid.

      I don’t think he’s bad looking. He works out, has money, decently tall, and extroverted.

      He hasn’t had a successful relationship in a while, if any at all lol. Every time I talk to him he’s complaining and getting angry about dates failing. Now, some of the girls are indeed assholes. But, I feel like when you’re not hideous, proudly admit these mindsets, and every date turns into a disaster, then maybe it’s time to reevaluate.

      For context, I’m not exactly slaying out there, but he keeps asking me if “these bitches are stuck up” or “everything become PC after third wave feminism.” I’ve never encountered these types of people outside of twitter screenshots. Even the feminists I know will casually joke about inappropriate, traditionally “politically incorrect” stuff because they don’t think I’m suspicious

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        He tells me that he constantly lies about his views and says whatever to get him closer to getting laid.

        The thing that these guys don’t seem to understand is that women can usually tell when these guys are putting on an act or lying to get something. He’s probably putting out a million red flags lol

        Women have had to become human lie detectors, but for some reason, it’s women who are painted as liars or manipulators. Crazy world.

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        left-leaning

        they want to be disrespected and have a child-like mind

        Pick one. Most women that fall into the latter category are CHUDs.

        Constantly lies about his views

        Why? Right-wing beliefs are the most fashionable of all ideologies. It may all be completely idiotic, but people think it’s cool to subscribe to its thought-process. Like, I’m the one who has to constantly hide my power level to make sure I don’t end up completely isolated from others.

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          Some conservative views are popular accepted, like monogamy and marriage, but that’s small ‘c’ conservative. He’s like Joe Rogan/Jordan Peterson/GOP type of conservatism.

          Conservatives have always complained about dating in urban areas because the truth is women aren’t attracted to dudes who think they know about female bodies from reading tweets, or think crypto will change the universe. So they try to lie about what they believe and realize being insincere is easily detectable

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      I don’t get dates because I’m a terminally online communist

      You don’t get dates because you’re a sexist pig who’s terminally online.

      We’re not the same

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    Wait till they find out people like to be around those that make them happy

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      hillary-apartment

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    Women usually don’t like being rated on a ten-point scale

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      A really classy broad will have her own Michelin star rating anyway

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        Love to rate women as a ploy to get people to drive more

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          You gotta put on the miles to get a decent dame

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          Jokes on them. I’ve only ever used public transport to go to a Michelin star restaurant

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    Yet another one of these incel dorks trying to boil interpersonal relationships down to some kind of math equation. You know when they say “it defies ALL logic”.

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      It’s because they believe their only hope is to to try to grind up “status” from working out, dressing better/looking slightly better, and having money. Anything to do with not having a disgusting personality is anathema to their consumeristic worldview.

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        It’s because they believe their only hope is to to try to grind up “status” from working out, dressing better/looking slightly better,

        My personality is not disgusting (I swear) but I am not attractive to anyone as far as I can tell, so I don’t know what else to do.

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      do they think birthcontrol makes you horny for the first dude you see but only the first??

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        It’s been a long time since my exposure to these weirdos, but I think I remember it being some bullshit evo-psych. Because hormonal birth control mimics pregnancy, it turns off women’s preference for good quality mates that will produce good offspring and provide for the family, and instead settle down with a nearby man, since the act is already done.

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        dating speedrun (nuzlocke) (any%)

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        do they think

        no

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      Sovereign Brah and Anime PFP have opinions on the feemale brainpan

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      Lol it’s really funny how the right pretend to care about men’s mental health, and the first thing they think about when an “ugly guy” (these people are cum brains so “ugly” to them probably looks like Tom Holland) has a girlfriend is “she is being brainwashed by birth control to like someone so hideous”

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      Eren Yeager pfp in the year of our Lord 2023 is unforgiveable. 3 years ago I would have let if fly, but now if you have one I’m just gonna assume you’re a fascist

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      picard

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    costanza was always a fucking steal you dork costanza-maoist

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      If I had known we had that emoji I would have used it every day all day.

      costanza-maoist

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        like every week another banger emoji drops, we’re spoiled rotten around here

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          Fine emojis abound

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          us not having enough emojis qin-shi-huangdi-fireball <- whyesseff

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    most straight women I know are attracted to either twinky nerd guys or middle aged overweight depressed alcoholics

    so the ideal males are thus: lt-kitsuragi dubois-depressed

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      Honestly you just need to be interesting. The bar is that low these days.

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        What if I mostly do drugs instead of drinking, do I still have a chance?

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          de-electrochemistry ELECTROCHEMISTRY [Legendary: Success] - It was never just about tequila, the Sun also rises

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      most straight women I know are attracted to either twinky nerd guys

      where would I even find these women?

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    I’ll be honest, I see other women freak out about this more than men. Like a woman will see another woman dating a guy “below her league” or whatever and assume something is awry and start asking the couple intrusive questions to figure out what is up.

    Dudes just seem to assume the guy has money and leave it at that.

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    Incels leaning that straight/bi/etc women a) have fairly broad tastes as a group and b) prefer someone who loves and appreciates them for who they are rather than a whore or a madonna is always A Time that I am here for. Ditto them learning that mostly, women dress up for themselves.

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    What do you mean “something bad is happening”. Why is this bad for them?

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      Because they’re almost realizing it’s their shit personality

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      Cause he isn’t getting picked

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    Remember folks, fat boy fall may be ending, but wide boy winter is just beginning!

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      Going for the Winnie-the-Pooh look that all the ladies go wild over. kiryu-approaching

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        xigma-male

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          HE’S A DANG CCP HONEY BEAR HE CAN’T GET WOMEN!!!

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      Why is he getting changed in the middle of the store lmao

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        the virgin changing roomer vs the chad clothing sampler

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        There’s a changing room right behind him with pants hung up and shoes on the floor as well. So it seems he got undressed in the changing room and part way through putting on a shirt he decided to leave.

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          He don’t fit in changing room

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      I have the strength of two space heaters but without the fire hazard.

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      This guy looks like he could tear a tree out of the ground. If you’re looking for a man with a decent shot of making Ozeki and acquiring elder stock, you could do worse

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      girls be like

      yeah. absolutely. only the girl in that image wants him lol

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      “fat”

      like 250 lbs of muscle

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      THATS RIGHT

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    I love when men just believe that we make all dating decisions based on one’s looks or status in life. Imagine wanting to be with someone just because they make you happy.

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      Imagine wanting to be with someone just because they make you happy.

      That sounds gay and very not based smuglord

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        Gay << complimentary >>

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    This guy is an incel right.

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      Certainly has the rhetoric of one.

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      Attack on Titan anime pfp gave it away.

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