• psycholocomotor@lemmy.world
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    9 小时前

    I had a friend who would take really long to respond to my texts and I would have sent like three times the content because I would pour out my unfiltered thoughts a lot. They would only reply to the one topic they wanted to talk about. At first it made me feel a little nervous that they didn’t want to hear about some stuff and weren’t reacting to it, but they explained they were fine with it. So, I was basically given the go ahead by someone to say just whatever I was thinking. So whenever they did reply and I heard the notification sound they had found whatever I said interesting enough for them to want to start a conversation about it with me.

  • vithigar@lemmy.ca
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    3 天前

    Do people actually enjoy receiving discord messages or being notified? I won’t deny the sound has conditioned me, but it’s my fight or flight response that’s being triggered.

    • rockSlayer@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      3 天前

      I started using discord to organize workers into unionizing. I got conditioned to see discord messages as a sign that some corporate bullshit just happened

    • lessthanluigi
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      3 天前

      When I first used discord in 2016, my life was falling apart and I was still having unprocessed grief. I have been conditioned to hear that noise to expect some self-hating demon is gonna ruin my week.

    • Axolotl.cpp@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      2 天前

      I just block whoever i don’t like and if a scammer sends me a scam link, it means i can destroy their site or database, so I just see notifies as positive

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    3 天前

    Are you sure? I think the responce Iv been trained to feel is a bit more negative then this persons here