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YarraByte@aussie.zoneM to Melbourne@aussie.zone · 2 days ago

Discussion Thread 🦊 Tuesday 6 October 2026

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Discussion Thread 🦊 Tuesday 6 October 2026

YarraByte@aussie.zoneM to Melbourne@aussie.zone · 2 days ago
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    2 days ago

    It is done.

    After 7 attempts over 17 years I have managed to escape my very abusive husband. It took help from the young seagoons as accommodation has been impossible, the economy bad. I had financial abuse, every kind of abuse. It has been very bad, very very bad. He knew it was over long ago , I told him. He has had GFs too.

    Miss Seagoon says to rest for a week and then I’ll be better already.

    I hope there won’t be much drama, shouldn’t be.

    • RoseLemon@aussie.zone
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      22 hours ago

      that is huge! congratulations.

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      Much love to you. More importantly, he has not been able to take away your softness, which is your greatest strength.

      • Seagoon_@aussie.zone
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        Thank you.

    • Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone
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      Congratulation on getting away ❤️

    • Pilk@aussie.zone
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      A show of immense strength. So happy for you.

    • imoldgreeeg@aussie.zone
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      Oh wow. Just adding my love and support to everyone else! And yes rest! And enjoy. If you need anything yell.

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      Oh my god seagoon 🫂So so glad for you, that you have done this 🫂

    • StudSpud The Starchy@aussie.zone
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      2 days ago

      YASSS GIRL YOU GOT THIS! I’m so proud of you!

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        2 days ago

        I felt like such a hypocrite all those times not saying anything when you have been sharing your own troubles with us 😔

        but I could not risk x seeing anything like that , he has been known to snoop and hack all my accounts

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          Nah nah you’re not a hypocrite lol that’s silly talk. You were protecting yourself, it makes perfect sense to me.

          I am seriously proud of you, and it pleases me so much that you had help and support 💜 you’re going to really bloom, and you already have so many tools to help you heal. It’ll still be so hard, but you always have my love and support 💜

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          Jesus Christ

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      Omg Seagoon 🥺 I’m so sorry you’ve been living through that, and I’m so happy for you it’s over. Sending you all the healing energy 🙏

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      It took long term planning and help.

      Abusers use strategies to control, so strategy is required to escape.

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        We are proud of you ❤️

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      OMFG I LOVE THIS FOR YOU!!! I seriously could NOT be happier for you! Congratulations, please take Miss Seagoon’s advice and rest, you deserve it. No wonder you’ve been feeling achey with this weighing on you. So proud of you, Seagoon.

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      Wondered when I saw your comment below re Ted. Very best wishes for the future! And a peaceful transition to new life. Hopefully Bill & Ted will re-unite with you soon.

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        Bill is with me

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          Do we need a posse to collect Ted?

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            No, Ted is fine where he is. He is very easy to look after and Ted really does love x.

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      You should celebrate.

      • Seagoon_@aussie.zone
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        I like your mindset 😊

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          Some of us could come celebrate with you.

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          🛏️🍰☕️

          • Seagoon_@aussie.zone
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            thank you 😘

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      Jeez that sounds really rough.

      Very glad to hear you’ve escaped an abusive husband no one should go through that.

      All of us are here for you if the need arises.

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      Oh gosh. The bestest wishes to you. 🫂❤️

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        Thanks.

        I will never understand why he has been like this.

        Have you seen the tv series “Kevin Can Fuck Himself”? He’s just like that except more of a loner

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          Holy hell that is quite the picture. That show was frightening.

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            every shitty thing kevin did, the same

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          No I haven’t. You are very brave and you deserve every happiness that comes your way. ❤️

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            Thanks.

            I was starting to feel a bit hopeless, the thought of another 20 years of it was awful

            life isn’t going to perfect, it still might be hard

            but it won’t be insane and under a constant threat of violence

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      Sending lots of love and healing your way Seagoon.

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      So sorry to hear you were in this situation. You’re so brave, leaving is not easy. I’m glad to hear you have support. Congratulations on starting the next chapter of your life, sending good vibes to you.

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      Oh my gosh. All the best future to you!

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