• sculptor0725@sh.itjust.works
    53·
    2 个月前

    Maybe all your contacts also value their privacy and therefore have not set signal to allow them to be discovered by their phone number

    • tumbling4986@lemmy.caOP
      221·
      2 个月前

      If that’s the case, then i would be more happier to get their usernames atleast. But the situation is way worse than that. They are deeply into whatsapp.

      • takeda@lemmy.dbzer0.com
        2·
        2 个月前

        Do they have a need to communicate with you?

        If so, you can just not install WhatsApp. Smartphones allow them to install multiple communicating apps, so your friends could remember to use signal when talking to you.

        • tumbling4986@lemmy.caOP
          2·
          2 个月前

          Actually, deletion of whatsapp and instagram drastically decreased my friend circle. Now i have more time for myself. I don’t think they have a reason to communicate with me. Anyway, am not installing whatsapp anymore.

    • James R Kirk@startrek.websiteEnglish
      12·
      2 个月前

      I have notifications on when someone joins and maybe 75% of the time after I see the notification their account is “deleted” because they changed the privacy settings.

      It’s not the end of the world but I do wish more people wouldn’t automatically pick the maximum privacy setting so that we could actually, yknow use it

      • Holytimes@sh.itjust.worksdeleted by creator
        2·
        2 个月前

        Not picking the max privacy setting defeats the point of using it for privacy.

        Classic catch 22!

        • James R Kirk@startrek.websiteEnglish
          3·
          2 个月前

          Not really, it’s still encrypted. If you’re not a political dissident and just using Signal to chat with friends then it is helpful to make yourself available to said friends.

  • superglue@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    28·
    2 个月前

    I have a handful of friends and family that did actually switch, but I still have a few stubborn friends on Discord that do t see the point. Just waiting for Discord to fuck up badly enough…

    • TheMinions@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
      23·
      2 个月前

      I have 1 friend who I talk to exclusively over discord DMs.

      The server went down for about 6 hours when we were chatting and he made a signal account.

      Then he deleted it after the outage 😭

    • tumbling4986@lemmy.caOP
      9·
      2 个月前

      Discord not even letting me to creare an account. The OTP never get generated. And i believe that’s for good.

      Many open-source developers also effectively using discord as a communication medium.

    • Dr. WeskerEnglish
      51·
      2 个月前

      Discord is already a haven for groomers, zoosadists, and more. Not sure what levels of “fucking up” they’d need to do, to get normies to bail.

      • Akatsuki Levi@lemmy.worldEnglish
        9·
        2 个月前

        For as long as they type a message, hit send, and the other person receives, they’ll keep on using it no matter what Users are stubborn to change, they only really do when they can’t do the basic thing

      • superglue@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
        8·
        2 个月前

        They dont know about any of that stuff and they don’t wander in the public spaces of discord. I think forcing the ID on all users will do the trick. They just haven’t enforced it yet.

        • OwOarchist@pawb.socialEnglish
          22·
          2 个月前

          they don’t wander in the public spaces of discord

          Which is very wise.

          I use Discord for work, and I use it only to communicate with specific people about specific things. Absolutely no need to go exploring whatever drek inhabits the rest of the service.

          • Axolotl@feddit.it
            2·
            2 个月前

            It really, reaally depends what public spaces you look for, personally, i didn’t meet many strange people because i just keep myself away from those kind of spaces, though sometime you meet the wanky sheep but that’s normal like on every other social and here on lemmy too

      • Holytimes@sh.itjust.worksdeleted by creator
        6·
        2 个月前

        None of the things you said actually affect normal users. They don’t see them or interact with them. So they literally do not matter at fucking all.

        To a normal person if something isn’t functionally punching them in the face actively right that second and causing them real physical pain and suffering.

        It might as well not exist. No amounts of explanation, theoretically this or that, bad news or corruption. Makes anyone actually give two shits.

        Those of us who actually care about things not actively hurting us in the moment. Are factually the out liers.

      • Ougie@lemmy.world
        4·
        2 个月前

        So one’s friends become zoosadists - whatever that is - if they’re chatting via discord?

        The argument that there’s creeps using a platform is moot if you’re using it to communicate with your friends. Which is what people do. It’s so weird to me, like, the same can be said about Signal etc etc but nooooo, there it’s only the good ones chatting. Get outta here with this shit.

        • Dr. WeskerEnglish
          1·
          2 个月前

          So one’s friends become zoosadists - whatever that is - if they’re chatting via discord?

          I honestly have no idea how you deduced that this was what I was saying.

          • Ougie@lemmy.world
            2·
            2 个月前

            How do I put this, the fact that a platform may be used by unsavory characters in some specific capacity and context does not affect normal people who use it to communicate with friends - which is what chat apps were designed to do. People use discord to talk to their friends while playing games. They use WhatsApp, signal, telegram and so on to text with friends. At least that’s the primary usage. Now if one were to venture out into the wild and start engaging with strange animal fuckers in obscure channels etc, that is something that doesn’t play into the average user experience.

  • absGeekNZ@lemmy.nzEnglish
    21·
    2 个月前

    I started when it was still called TextSecure, I had precisely 1 contact (just my nerdy friend from uni) for the first 3 years. I then convinced my partner to install it, had 2 contacts for the next few years.

    When it became Signal, a few more jumped on. Once I had kids; I bullied my family onto it, by refusing to send photos any other way.

    I have 62 contacts now, the bulk of my digital communication is through either Signal, phone, email or Lemmy. There is a little SMS/RCS.

    It has been a 15 year journey so far, for me. You will get there.

    • Typotyper@sh.itjust.works
      6·
      2 个月前

      What if I’m in my 50s and i don’t have half that number of contacts anywhere. Will I still get there.

      And if those 30ish contacts find me on signal, where am I supposed to go and hide next.

      • Rcklsabndn@sh.itjust.works
        3·
        2 个月前

        I’m sure some genius has made a texting protocol that requires installing Linux and can only be utilized by console with sudo access.

        You can finally get some peace and quiet.

        Except from fucking Phil. That guy is the worst.

    • hancock@retrolemmy.com
      4·
      2 个月前

      I’ve 36 contacts. I started 3 years ago. In a country where people stare at me for solid 3-5 seconds before they utter a word when I tell them I don’t ise whatsapp. Love it.

      We’ll get there.

    • electric_nan@lemmy.ml
      2·
      2 个月前

      OG here too. I remember when they first supported voice calls. It was a separate app called redphone.

  • M137@lemmy.today
    172·
    2 个月前

    I’m actually surprised by how easily I was able to get my whole family and several friends on there, it’s my main messaging platform now. The only others are sms and steam chat.

    • Lantsu@sopuli.xyzEnglish
      4·
      2 个月前

      Same here, it turned out family and friends wanted to stay in touch! Not a real surprise, but for some reason I kept overthinking and delaying the process… Once I just asked, all was done within like 20 mins. People made their accounts, I made the groups.

  • Atelopus-zeteki@fedia.io
    15·
    2 个月前

    All the more motivation to encourage your friends to get on signal. I’ve had a discussion this week with someone, on fedi, who just can’t conceive of getting off Meta products, like WhatSapp, because it has so much usage in Europe. Our work isn’t done; not yet.

    • merc@sh.itjust.works
      9·
      2 个月前

      That person doesn’t need to leave WhatsApp completely right away. They can just talk to some people on Signal and others on WhatsApp.

      • Toasticus@piefed.socialEnglish
        3·
        2 个月前

        It’s just hard to convince people to try alternatives at all. Once they’ve dug deep into something they want to use, they won’t budge.

      • Atelopus-zeteki@fedia.io
        2·
        2 个月前

        Generally that’s not been my experience. Person to Person it’s been pretty easy for the most part. I can think of one exception from the past decade, one of those “I just can’t start using another app” sorts. YMMV. Persistence furthers.

  • recklessengagement@lemmy.world
    13·
    2 个月前

    When I switched to Signal I enforced it hard. Refused to talk to anyone on another platform. If they texted me, I’d responed, but always add “I’d prefer if we discussed this over Signal.”

    I had more success than I’d anticipated. About 90% of my family and 80% of my friends moved over.

    My best piece of advice for this is to start new group chats - people want to be in the group chats, and if they believe Signal is where it’s all happening, they’ll join.

    • Dejected Warp Core@lemmy.world
      3·
      2 个月前

      I’m on the receiving end of this from a friend and I didn’t even think twice about it. I think we’re all in a place now where being asked to install yet another app is pretty commonplace. Plus phone app stores make it relatively painless to do.

  • Dr. WeskerEnglish
    12·
    2 个月前

    There’s a CLI which is nice. I use it to communicate with my self-hosted personal assistant, while I’m on the go.

    • dragonlover@lemmy.zip
      8·
      2 个月前

      My mother in law actually surprised me by asking if the family group chat could switch to signal. I wasnt going to bother her about it because i assumed shed hate it since shes bad with technology. It was a pleasant surprise.