I’m someone who goes by Ze/Zir pronouns. I’ve done so for years. I originally went by they/them pronouns but I didn’t like them much and they just don’t feel right for me. When I discovered neopronouns they just felt right. Unfortunately I haven’t had much luck getting people to refer to me by my preferred pronouns.
Even here on Lemmy lots of people still refer to me by they/them or worse she/her. It feels really bad. Does anyone else on here struggle with this?
They are gender neutral pronouns which are intended to replace he/him or she/her pronouns while leaving all other sentence grammar intact. Compared to They/them pronouns which function differently grammatically. They’re also singular in nature. Which they/them can be used singularly, but Ze/Zir, Xe/Xem/Xyr, Vi/Vis, etc. are always singular, just like he/him or she/her. It’s very easy to swap them out because English doesn’t have much gramatical gender in it, unlike other languages like spanish. Although I hear there are strides made to create gender neutral grammar in spanish.
Hmm, okay. I think I get the idea now. Thanks for the explanation.
Just one more thing. You mentioned pronouns Xe/Xem/Xyr. Why are there 3 forms? Is it like he/him/his, with the third one added for clarity, since it may not he obvious?
Yeah that’s how it is. For Ze/Zir Zir takes the position of him and his. Which is why I only included the two forms.
“I borrowed his car” becomes “I borrowed zir car”.
“I asked him for $20” becomes “I asked zir for $20”.
In the case of Xe/Xem/Xyr it goes
“I borrowed xyr car” and “I asked xem for $20” respectively.