because hot means “youre really attractive when I look at you” here. You dont know what they like, they dont know their hobbys, their style of humor, only what they look like. That is the difference.
If you said, “you know I find you to be really hot when your wit is so quick” its different.
Ive told my husband, “Youre so hot when youre getting excited over basketball cards” cuz, he is, im not objectifying him. His personality is what makes him hot, not his giant cock.
Also, telling someone youve known as a person for a time, like talked to them before, know them already a bit, hot is less off putting and random, than a person you just met. A person you just met the only thing you can call them hot for is how they look. Thats objectifying.
because hot means “youre really attractive when I look at you” here. You dont know what they like, they dont know their hobbys, their style of humor, only what they look like. That is the difference.
If you said, “you know I find you to be really hot when your wit is so quick” its different.
Ive told my husband, “Youre so hot when youre getting excited over basketball cards” cuz, he is, im not objectifying him. His personality is what makes him hot, not his giant cock.
Also, telling someone youve known as a person for a time, like talked to them before, know them already a bit, hot is less off putting and random, than a person you just met. A person you just met the only thing you can call them hot for is how they look. Thats objectifying.