“Passing” is a tool of the oppressor, plenty of cis women don"t “pass” (see every article of terfs harassing toilet usage), fuckit, let’s go find you a nice gf.
I should clarify that passing is not a roadblock for me in regards to dating. Firstly, I wouldn’t want to just ask some random person out; I’d wanna be friends first. Second, I wouldn’t want to date anyone who’s dating me for my appearence (which is good, since no one would ever do that lol).
I know it’s stupid. Passing is just another unrealistic beauty standard. However, other women don’t always immediately recognise me as a non-threat, and that’s due to not “passing”.
“Passing” is a tool of the oppressor, plenty of cis women don"t “pass” (see every article of terfs harassing toilet usage), fuckit, let’s go find you a nice gf.
I should clarify that passing is not a roadblock for me in regards to dating. Firstly, I wouldn’t want to just ask some random person out; I’d wanna be friends first. Second, I wouldn’t want to date anyone who’s dating me for my appearence (which is good, since no one would ever do that lol).
I know it’s stupid. Passing is just another unrealistic beauty standard. However, other women don’t always immediately recognise me as a non-threat, and that’s due to not “passing”.