• strawberry_enjoyer42@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    6 days ago

    I’m not really looking for a relationship, so it isn’t very relevent for me. I think I’m simply too selfish with my time to dedicate much of it to a partner, despite really wanting one.

    I read it anyhow, though. I just love reading :3

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      5 days ago

      I retract my earlier statement, how are you on cats? I know a very polite ginger with a lovely singing voice and an extremely wiggly tail.

      (I lie, he has a vocal wail that sounds like a neurotic car braking around a corner and the single most naked looking anus I’ve ever seen on a mammal - but he IS very polite and friendly and looks like he’s perpetually wearing footy pyjamas.

      Ok he also likes to suck his own penis but we’ve all been teenagers, don’t judge)

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        5 days ago

        Awww! He sounds like a real cutie, if a bit odd :p

        Mine’s a scrawny lil tortie tux. Got her from some old neighbors. She’s the sweetest darned thing in the world, but she gets suuuuuper anxious sometimes :/ She has a phermone diffuser and a water fountain because of being particular. I wuv her so much :3

        My kitty also has a roommate, who is NOT my cat, but rather my sister’s. She is very different from mine. She’s large, she’s a bully (to my cat), and she’s a real trouble-maker, too. She’s a medium-length black tux.

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          5 days ago

          Torties are sooo neurotic i s2g. We have a 14 year old who was literally born into my hands, never had a bad day in her life, still wigs out at a shoe under a coffee table

          (Sam and his brother Max are both rescues. And originally either from a feral colony or a really messed up breeder)

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      6 days ago

      I mean, completely understandable you don’t want a partner. Personally from my experience, asking someone out just like that is crazy to me… People should just be nice, make friendships and see with time if something naturally comes out of it - and if not at least you have close friends and meaningful relations. That’s kind of the only way for me to survive in this whole dating culture, without making anyone uncomfortable, and it worked out perfectly for me and now I am in a very happy and healthy relationship ^^

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        5 days ago

        Oh, I defintely won’t ever ask a complete stranger out. That would be… yeah, that’d be awful.

        I did have one relationship (it was online; kinda cringe), and we started as (and still are!) good friends.

        She was alright, but I don’t think I want to spend much time on such things. I’m… regretful. I could’ve done so many better things with that time.