• Banana@sh.itjust.works
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    8 days ago

    My point is treat women like you’re trying to make a friend, not like a person you are trying to date because you don’t know enough about them as a person to even know if there will be a connection.

    If you’d approach people you don’t know for dates but not friendship, that’s your own problem and maybe something to work on.

    Women don’t want to be liked for how they look, they want to be liked for who they are.

    • ZDL@lazysoci.al
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      8 days ago

      Women don’t want to be liked for how they look, they want to be liked for who they are.

      Hard disagree here. I love being liked for how I look.

      I just don’t put out because you say I look nice. It’s a foot in the door at best, and only if you praise it in ways that don’t come across like you’re viewing me as a slab of meat with orifices.

      I mean unless I’m in a hook-up joint, duh.