My parent said that I cannot donate it to people in need because I have no salary, but I am not sure if joint-account ownership works like that (I doubt it does). It just feels like my parent is being controlling like they have been throughout my whole life.
Edit: For context, they said that I have to use the money for university stuff (not sure if that is legally enforceable).
They can stop making deposits and withdraw all the money.
But what if I withdraw it all or spend it first? Hehe (devious laugh).
Edit: Just to be clear, my parent is an awful person that is pressuring me into doing something I do not want and is generally ignorant of my mental state (I also do not really feel safe around them).