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minus-squareQuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·4 days ago men seek out custody less often do you think that could be a symptom of men feeling like there’s no point even trying if they’re just gonna lose?
minus-squareVelma@lemmy.todaylinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up7·edit-24 days agoThen they’re pretty weak men who have failed as fathers. Men who seek custody and aren’t abusive are usually awarded custody of some kind.
minus-squareMrFinnbean@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·4 days agoSo are you saying that men that loose custody are weak and its their fault? So in a way its the victims fault? Huh. Never tought it that way. I truly belive in equality, but i cant deny, that its funny how its often the same arguments in the both end of the spectrum.
minus-squareVelma@lemmy.todaylinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·edit-24 days agoNo, men that choose to not seek custody and abandon their children because of a misconception are weak and bad fathers.
do you think that could be a symptom of men feeling like there’s no point even trying if they’re just gonna lose?
Then they’re pretty weak men who have failed as fathers.
Men who seek custody and aren’t abusive are usually awarded custody of some kind.
So are you saying that men that loose custody are weak and its their fault? So in a way its the victims fault? Huh. Never tought it that way.
I truly belive in equality, but i cant deny, that its funny how its often the same arguments in the both end of the spectrum.
No, men that choose to not seek custody and abandon their children because of a misconception are weak and bad fathers.