• BoofStroke@sh.itjust.works
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    None of that is a flex. ICQ is the same shit from the endless September. Personally I used to read Usenet on a mainframe, and thought it was cool we could see weather maps with gopher. I don’t think any of this makes me cool at all. Just that I was nerdy and liked the escape technology used to be when the signal to noise was good.

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    Honestly, the people who were around in the early internet days helped build the online world we all use now. A little respect for the veterans of dial-up isn’t a bad thing. 😄

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    Okay, I get this may be off-topic, but “It is okay to bully–”, no, it’s not okay to bully anyone. What is passing by these people’s minds?

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    Social media used to be about socializing and communicating. These days its all drivel that has bren productized into a vehicle where streaming addictive brain rot keeps the advertisements flowing and lowers self esteem.

    Gen Z may have adopted the internet but it was born of us- AIM, yahoo messenger, ICQ, IRC servers, news groups… all on a dial-up modem. The good old days where there wasnt enough bandwidth for all the ads of today, and the most intrusive ads were a 468x60 pixel banner at the top or bottom of the netscape page

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      I feel like those platform ideas came initially from people who wanted to build something cool. Something people would use. The ads were a side effect of being part of the tech company.

      Now I feel they are built because it’s a way to show ads or harvest data.

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      My Reddit account was 19 years old before I was permabanned by their stupid AI for liking Luigi pics and saying I wish Trump wouldn’t wake up in response to a pic of him napping 😔

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      Saw it on an episode of MASH.

      Henry is dating a 22 year old nurse. Hawkeye tells Henry that Henry has bunions older than his girlfriend.

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    I am one of the few people, it seems, that can not for the life of me remember my ICQ number… but I was there, using it.

    Anyone remember Trillian? Having your Yahoo, AIM, ICQ, Messenger, etc all in one program…

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      I also don’t remember my ICQ number, but I had one. And I remember my first time stepping into a 99 cent only store and their registers used that “uh oh” sound from it. I always felt like nobody else recognized where it was from.

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      I absolutely remember Trillian. It’s what convinced me to finally make an AIM account to talk with my “mainstream” friends who didn’t have ICQ or IRC, since I wouldn’t actually need to run any new software.

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      I remember my ICQ number, 4170129, but I don’t remember why I know it.

      Surely I didn’t have to type it in every time I logged in, did I? That would be a really stupid UI.

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      And Facebook Messenger and Gmail Chat (or whatever it was called)! There was a glorious period of time where you could talk to pretty much anyone on any service from one chat app.

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      Omg Trillian! I haven’t heard that name in forever. You just unlocked a flood of memories.

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      It was just last year that re-found my little black book from the late 90’s and 2000’s with all my accounts from back then AIM/ICQ/Yahoo, shit there was even a /. account number sub 100,000 that I couldn’t log into any more

    • Couldn’t disagree more.

      Prior to fb, there was dedicated forums for the music scene I was in to in my area. Everything was in them. Finding what was on was easy as all the promotors used them.

      Then fb came along, the forums slowly faded and finding events became unreliable in fb’s chaotic algorithm bullshit. Now some things are not on it, some are insta only etc.

      Fuck META.

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        I like how they specified before the algorithm and you cite the algorithm for why you disliked it

        • Let me clarify.

          Before the algorithm when both fb and forums coexisted was still annoying.

          Some events would be on forums.

          Some on fb

          Some both.

          Occasionally I would miss out on early bird tickets or tickets all together.

          There was never a point where Facebook made anything better on that front.

          Don’t even get me started on the fuckery that fb marketplace is vs what we had.

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        Used to be. There was a time when forums and facebook both existed and worked well in their respective niches.

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        Discord is (unfortunately) filling the gap now. Why have a bbs when you can have a shitty chat platform with shitty search and conversations that are impossible to track?

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        Then fb came along, the forums slowly faded and finding events became unreliable in fb’s chaotic algorithm bullshit. Now some things are not on it, some are insta only etc.

        It gets worse on the mobile app because there’s much less control and so much slop, versus accessing FB on a browser with a Violentmonkey script applying custom filters getting rid of unwanted suggested pages.

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        It’s nice that your area had that. Mine didn’t until Facebook, or at least nothing a somewhat tech savvy 15 year old new about.

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      Back when I was booking shows it was great because you could blast a small event and know it was reaching a lot of people. Bands would share it, every band member would reshare it. But then I noticed the growing discrepancy between the amount of people who claimed they’d attend online and who showed up. Like so much on FB, the illusion of being a part of something became more important than actually being a part of something. But yeah, for a brief moment there was a bit of “social” in social media. Then came the yelling.

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      rofl tell me you do not understand how FB got started without telling me…

      That shit’s been a privacy nightmare from the beginning.

      Zuck has been selling personal info from basically day 1. He’s been abusing people since day 1.

      The day people realize convenience does not equal good is the day humanity grows up from a petulant child to a moronic teenager… Too bad it’s looking more and more like we’ll never make it past, “petulant child”.

      • korazail@lemmy.myserv.one
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        It was 2002-ish.

        A much younger korazail saw how my friends were leaving highschool, going to different colleges and foresaw they would continue to spread out after that.

        He had an idea of building a website to help keep track of friends so we could keep in touch despite physical distance and enable networking; a blend of Facebook and LinkedIn.

        I was a CS major and built a forum and database architecture that my local friend group used for a little bit to chat, but we were all still mostly local and it didn’t seem super useful, and while always on Internet was a thing, I didn’t have it and my server needed to be online to use my application.

        A few years later, Facebook.

        I wonder sometimes how the world would be if I’d promoted my idea, figured out how to host it outside my bedroom, etc. I might have also just been a Myspace or live journal, but maybe I’d have gotten there first…

        I don’t think I’d be a megalomanic asshole, but I can’t prove it.

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      Ive been around the internet since early dial up days, and while I haven’t used every social platform that appeared, Facebook was the one where I saw everyone was really just posting their projected self, the world is amazing fake lives. I dont think it necessarily started immediately like that, but it quickly became that. Its the first place I saw it anyway.

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      Before Zuck hired Joel Kaplan to specifically cater to right wing interests.

      It was kinda nice yeah.

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      Events was what kept me on the site for far too long after they went bad. Being able to organise events with friends so easily was incredible. I can track the decrease in my social activity along with fb making their system worse and it makes me sad

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    ICQ? Listen here, young man.

    I grew up in outback Australia, in the before times. My first time online was a 1200-baud modem on a BBC Electron.

    We did school over HF radio with School of the Air, had no phone lines, and barely reliable electricity.

    Do not speak to me of the deep magics. I was there when they were written.

    double biceps flex

    farts

    breaks a hip

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      Ooh, Australia, I have a question. Was PalTalk a big thing over there? Obviously way after what you described. I remember my father having an old classmate over from Australia and he introduced us to “The Internet”, and how instant messaging was possible a cross borders through PalTalk. Even though I never heard anyone using it in Europe, even years past that encounter.

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        No, not that I know of. We use to have local / oz only IRC channels, because overseas calls were expensive. So, you would dial into your ISP and then have access to city/state wide IRCs like AusNet. Later that became national. That was circa 94-99.

        It was BBS before that.

        I remember buying a small black and white TV from a second hand store to watch the 2000 Olympics and chatting to people over mIRC simultaneously.

        The TV was sitting right next to a Apple Newton in the store. When I went back to get it, it had already been sold. Ended up buying a palm pilot 1000 instead.

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    Oh, you think the darkness is your ally. But you merely adopted the dark.