I have always been fond of music, especially when I’m feeling down. Now, I don’t think there’s enough popular songs about disability and how we struggle each day. But I stumbled across a song the other day that, while it’s not about disability, I’ve been listening to quite often when I feel like I failed somehow. When all that’s happening is really just me struggling and making it through another day, for better or for worse, I like to remind myself that I am perfectly incomplete, but I am good the way I am. I hope that maybe it helps you too.
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The problem with a hysterectomy is that apparently, you still need to take hormonal drugs, especially if they remove the ovaries as well. The side effects without hormones are immediate menopause as well as bone density issues bc estrogen is needed to keep your bones intact and strong (alternative is testosterone). The side effects of a hysterectomy without removing the ovaries is, in my case, no end to the endometriosis, but apart from that, it also causes the bladder to dislocate quite often and the can make your innards fall forward and into unhealthy positions, which includes the colon and kidneys. It’s not something they like doing in general, as the pelvic floor seems to suffer the most and thus makes all the other issues happen.
Thank you for the shared rage, sweetie
I feel very much cheated, but then again, I knew treatment wise we aren’t at a point where I can get rid of endo without hormonal therapy.
I didn’t know all that. I thought a hysterectomy would help my bladder issues but it sounds like it might make them worse!
Anyway sorry to hear you don’t have any good options. Medical science is still so primitive.
It can help as much as it can cause further damage, but the alternative is usually hormones, so… I don’t know if I’d recommend any of the options. I think it’s mostly a weighing of pros and cons. And depending on what you want to get rid off, removing the uterus may help, but I am no doctor, so this is just me speculating.
Especially when it is about female reproductive health
There are never any good options in life!