• Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    I generally support most of the things posted here. This one gave me an ick feeling, though.

    Yes, there’s loads and loads of evidence for the unbalanced emotional labor placed on women and I’ve seen it and I’ve been there and I hate it.

    While the headline tempers the screenshot, it still says “men, unironically,” and that’s the part I feel is more divisive. Even though part of me agrees, a part that wants to scream “Fuck yes, sister!” I gotta be like nah, not this one.

    • Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      This post is particularly narcissism coded. People with that personality disorder are accurately described by this post.

      Framing half the population as having a personality disorder is not a good way to start a conversation, and distracts from real issues.

      Unbalanced emotional labor is a real problem. Narcissists are a threat. These two ideas are not related.

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    5 months ago

    Definitely #NotAllMen but definitely #EnoughMenActually that this needs to be heard.