• thisbenzingring
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    1 month ago

    growing up with a single mom, an older sister, and a younger sister… there were only a couple word that were never acceptable

    I could say shit fuck asshole motherfucker and so on

    but the words Cnt and Btch were absolutely unacceptable

    I remember one time, I was about to call my little sister a B*tch and I didn’t even know my mom was in the room but before I could even get the word out of my mouth, she smacked me so hard. I was like BUT THEY SAY IT ON TV SO IT MUST BE OK. Yeah that was the day I got a good lesson in how rules work for something and not for other but the rules mom makes are the only real rules you have to follow in life

    • ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.combanned_from_community_badge
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      1 month ago

      Had you been attempting to call her a fuckface with shit for brains would that have been fine?

      That seems like an odd enforcement of rules if so, you’d think any vulgar disparaging remarks would count, or none, but to be that highly selective is odd.

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          1 month ago

          What does having women in your life have to do with calling general slurs? Are they allergic or something?

          Can I say dick in front of them or will they start fuming at the mouth?

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      1 month ago

      Ok, thanks for sharing, but nobody is forcing you to write bitch. Not everyone has a trauma like you.