• samus12345@lemm.ee
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    My boyfriend’s beige flag is that he gets impatient at restaurants and helps the waitress bring the plates to our table

    Yes, I do know that, because it’s explicitly stated.

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      Lol k, well she also used the word “help”, and he’s smiling in the pic so clearly he’s being nice about. You still lose.

      Also worth noting that I never said anything abour him being impatient, I said you didn’t know he was being a pushy asshole, and you don’t. Being impatient does not in any way require being rude.

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        And I’m sure she said this was a “beige flag” because he’s such a great, thoughtful guy. You’re being incredibly obtuse. This is a post about her boyfriend having sketchy behavior.

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          If she meant red flag she’d have said red flag, if he was angry or pushy you’d think it might show on his face, but thinking’s clearly not your thing. You’re free to make whatever assumptions you want, but they are still assumptions. There’s nothing “sketchy” about being impatient either, you’re reaching.