I always just knew that I was wired a little different
The very first time I read about Prince Albert piercings in a magazine, I knew that I needed one. I think was fifteen
I wasn’t “altering” my body, I was making it mine, the way it should have always been
My love of fisting came a few years later, when I saw an image of such passion, trust and intimacy that utterly reshaped how I saw sex
I’ve always been one to push myself to extremes, but I realised that other people enjoyed being taken to different places too
I’m lucky, I learnt in a respectful, safe and healthy way
I really worry about young people learning about kink, where unrealistic porn has been their main (if not only) experience
I’m forever telling people to slow down, to start small (in lots of things) and that nothing is a competition
Respectful, slow and healthy - I’m so happy that I’ve learned it that way as well.
I really worry about young people learning about kink, where unrealistic porn has been their main (if not only) experience
Same here. There’s a difference between regular first year anal sex and the things you see at analacrobats.
It’s all of it
Choking done dangerously and without the understanding of anatomy and physiology to even get something out of it
Ropes that aren’t just poorly executed, but risky to limbs
Most of all, the importance of consent, safety, knowing that the locus of control is always with the sub, Dom-drop as well as the effects on a bottom, AFTERCARE, and the list goes on
Don’t even get me started on 50 Shades…
When I was dating and a woman would say “oh, you’re like a real-life Christian Gray” I knew it was the last date, because those books are rape manuals
I like mean women and pain. Early on I met some leather folk and fell in with the community as I meshed perfectly with the culture
For me it was when I was crashing at a friend’s place and we were both bored. A mutual friend (with lots of bondage experience) had taught him a simple rope handcuff and we tried to do it. Afterwards we wanted to do more and over the span of a weekend we got kinda good at it.
I loved getting restrained, feeling the rope and being unable to move. I never learned any rigging myself and became a full on ropebunny instead LOL
Also, turns out I’m really into pain, impact play and bondage mix very well. From there on out I started getting into more and more other kink topics and I keep on discovering more things I like