• FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com
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    3 days ago

    It’s all of it

    Choking done dangerously and without the understanding of anatomy and physiology to even get something out of it

    Ropes that aren’t just poorly executed, but risky to limbs

    Most of all, the importance of consent, safety, knowing that the locus of control is always with the sub, Dom-drop as well as the effects on a bottom, AFTERCARE, and the list goes on

    Don’t even get me started on 50 Shades…

    When I was dating and a woman would say “oh, you’re like a real-life Christian Gray” I knew it was the last date, because those books are rape manuals