• BudgetBandit@sh.itjust.worksOP
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    3 days ago

    Respectful, slow and healthy - I’m so happy that I’ve learned it that way as well.

    I really worry about young people learning about kink, where unrealistic porn has been their main (if not only) experience

    Same here. There’s a difference between regular first year anal sex and the things you see at analacrobats.

    • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com
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      3 days ago

      It’s all of it

      Choking done dangerously and without the understanding of anatomy and physiology to even get something out of it

      Ropes that aren’t just poorly executed, but risky to limbs

      Most of all, the importance of consent, safety, knowing that the locus of control is always with the sub, Dom-drop as well as the effects on a bottom, AFTERCARE, and the list goes on

      Don’t even get me started on 50 Shades…

      When I was dating and a woman would say “oh, you’re like a real-life Christian Gray” I knew it was the last date, because those books are rape manuals