I’ve read this book many times to my kid, and while it was a personal favorite growing up, I can’t help but think the message it sends isn’t the best. It basically boils down to: if people don’t want to be your friend, you should consider changing who you are, and if that doesn’t work, try bribing them instead.
E. The Giving Tree is another popular book I am fond of from childhood with a poor message imho. (Take take take no matter the cost to others) but in truth, that book is at least a good metaphor for parenthood as a whole. (We’re the tree)
Not just bribing them. Tearing off pieces of your body because you’re so much luckier and prettier and more special, so you should share it with everyone and be less special.
I know the author intended it as a metaphor for sharing, but it really does read as an uncomfortable situation of giving up on your individuality to fit in and on others having a say in your own body / presentation.
It’s been a long while since I read this book back in the 90s, so I’m not married to my own interpretation. But it could be a lesson in privilege and charity. If you have all the things your community envies, it is healthy to share those things through charity. It’s not just about individuality in appearance, but could be an allegory for wealth and equalization. Like I said, could be way off base since I only remember the gist of it.
We got this for our kid and read it to her and we were like uh… I don’t remember that. Our kid loved the book, but, we didnt think it was good to keep reading it.
I’ve read this book many times to my kid, and while it was a personal favorite growing up, I can’t help but think the message it sends isn’t the best. It basically boils down to: if people don’t want to be your friend, you should consider changing who you are, and if that doesn’t work, try bribing them instead.
E. The Giving Tree is another popular book I am fond of from childhood with a poor message imho. (Take take take no matter the cost to others) but in truth, that book is at least a good metaphor for parenthood as a whole. (We’re the tree)
Not just bribing them. Tearing off pieces of your body because you’re so much luckier and prettier and more special, so you should share it with everyone and be less special.
I know the author intended it as a metaphor for sharing, but it really does read as an uncomfortable situation of giving up on your individuality to fit in and on others having a say in your own body / presentation.
You’re not wrong! But that’s why it’s nostalgia lol I’m looking at it as a kid and through rose tinted glasses. Plus I like the sparkly scales xD
It’s been a long while since I read this book back in the 90s, so I’m not married to my own interpretation. But it could be a lesson in privilege and charity. If you have all the things your community envies, it is healthy to share those things through charity. It’s not just about individuality in appearance, but could be an allegory for wealth and equalization. Like I said, could be way off base since I only remember the gist of it.
No you’re pretty much right (it’s about sharing, and not being selfish), but the way it’s written doesn’t make that clear.
I also remembered it as a book symbolizing wealth inequality but the metaphor doesn’t work that well.
We got this for our kid and read it to her and we were like uh… I don’t remember that. Our kid loved the book, but, we didnt think it was good to keep reading it.
Edit: Clarification; Rainbow Fish