For example I as Central American man Really prefer to mostly watch JAV instead of American porn. Simply because I think it’s hot to see JAV actress like 早川瑞希(Mizuki Hayakawa) or 渋谷ひとみ (Hitomi Shibuya) humilate and degrade submissive men.

But when it comes to datingI prefer to date central American women most of the time because it’s alot easier for me to get along well with them simply because we share the same culture norms, the shame language and are more likely to have the same value as me too. I’m also not sexually submissive in real life.

  • southsamurai@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
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    23 days ago

    Not really, not for me.

    However, I have to say that I stopped using porn a while back, and that I don’t really have a “type”. It isn’t that I wouldn’t ever date the kind of women I used to like in porn, it’s that my tastes in what I find attractive are so varied, that it was never difficult to find the kind of women I’m attracted to.

    And I would watch porn that wasn’t really arousing just out of curiosity too. Like, I’m vanilla as hell, but it’s interesting to see some of the kink content. So, again, I’m an outlier since porn wasn’t always something I would watch for arousal, even back when I did use porn for that in general.

    My vague preference in porn was that the female performers be decent at pretending to have fun, not just fake moan. I’m not necessarily talking about them pretending to enjoy the sex, it was always pretty obvious that most porn was heavily edited, which meant a lot of breaks in the action. But that they gave a performance where they seemed to be there because making the porn was something that they liked doing.

    I was aware that most of them didn’t, but I could still enjoy the material if the performers, specifically the women, acted like the process was more than just a job.

    In that regard, I do want partners like I prefer porn. I want partners that are into the sex for its own sake, as a form of pleasure and mutual fun, not just doing it because they think they’re supposed to. My only real kink is enthusiastic consent.

    So, when a performer was laughing, or otherwise indicating fun, it flipped that switch for me in a way that their looks wouldn’t matter, even if they weren’t attractive otherwise.