ThermonuclearEgg [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.net to mutual_aid@hexbear.netEnglish · 5 days ago

[Not my post] 51-year-old disabled transfem about to be kicked out

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[Not my post] 51-year-old disabled transfem about to be kicked out

ThermonuclearEgg [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.net to mutual_aid@hexbear.netEnglish · 5 days ago

I'm a 51-year-old trans-feminine person with an intellectual disability. I need a place to live.

My name's Kara. I'm 51 years old, and for the past four years I've been living with my now-former partner at the house of his family in DeWitt,...

This is NOT my post, but I thought maybe Hexbear would have some advice or something for this person, since I don’t know who else would

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    Whataboutism? What about deez nuts?
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    I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:
    
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