What does it feel like for you to be held in the arms of someone you’re attracted to like you mentioned?
Also if you are bi (your name has “sapphic” in it but I’m not assuming that you are or not😅), how does your attraction to men differ from your attraction to women, nbs etc?
I’m bi but monogamous and married to a woman, she’s bi too so we like oogling at hot strangers together, but are pretty much just sapphics in practice :p
For the men I have been with I liked it when they held me tight and made me feel small/precious. It’s kind of difficult to describe, but surrendering yourself to a cute guy who you know is gonna do good things to you is really freeing/comforting. Makes me feel all tingly inside ya know?
I guess that’s the self centered bottom fantasy lol
And there’s tones of the patriarchy in those dynamics that i can identify, but the horny overrules
Women can make me feel like this as well, but I’d probably need to find a butch or a more than average assertive woman.
Sry i saw the reply but didn’t have time to type and forgot.
I think the biggest difference is the traditional roles we both fell into once we got used to each other.
As much as I would like this to change as our society evolves, in most relationships there’s a “top” and “bottom”, for lack of a better comparison. You can have a very fair relationship but there’s still going to be one of you who is usually the “face” of the relationship when interacting with the world and others.
With guys I was rarely in the “top” position in interactions, i took the lead when the situation was something i only had experience with or if it was with a group of my friends instead of his. I kind of prefer this because I love just getting to ride along and not have to plan or be the social one.
With women I was usually pushed to be the “top”, i don’t mind it, but most women prefer to take on that role in a relationship from my experience.
Other differences that come to mind would be:
-Men are hot, like temperature, they are always radiating so much body heat
-Men are more physical sexually feel way more comfortable initiating sex, I’ve never been uncomfortable with the guys I’ve met with tho cuz i kind of want/expect more sex earlier on in relationships from guys.
Women on the other hand, are physical romantically, they like kissing and holding hands and snuggling, but a lot of women feel uncomfortable moving from romantic to sexual. Probably because so many women are abused sexually in the US. Which puts it on me to initate most of the time.
-like every guy plays some kind of regular games, either sports or videogames, they’re more playful and competitive
Women like to watch things or read, they like hearing stories over playing games usually. I’ve met a lot of women who feel intimidated or unwelcome playing multiplayer games with men.
What does it feel like for you to be held in the arms of someone you’re attracted to like you mentioned?
Also if you are bi (your name has “sapphic” in it but I’m not assuming that you are or not😅), how does your attraction to men differ from your attraction to women, nbs etc?
I’m bi but monogamous and married to a woman, she’s bi too so we like oogling at hot strangers together, but are pretty much just sapphics in practice :p
For the men I have been with I liked it when they held me tight and made me feel small/precious. It’s kind of difficult to describe, but surrendering yourself to a cute guy who you know is gonna do good things to you is really freeing/comforting. Makes me feel all tingly inside ya know?
I guess that’s the self centered bottom fantasy lol
And there’s tones of the patriarchy in those dynamics that i can identify, but the horny overrules
Women can make me feel like this as well, but I’d probably need to find a butch or a more than average assertive woman.
What other differences are there in your experience between being in relationships with women and being in relationships with men?
Sry i saw the reply but didn’t have time to type and forgot.
I think the biggest difference is the traditional roles we both fell into once we got used to each other.
As much as I would like this to change as our society evolves, in most relationships there’s a “top” and “bottom”, for lack of a better comparison. You can have a very fair relationship but there’s still going to be one of you who is usually the “face” of the relationship when interacting with the world and others.
With guys I was rarely in the “top” position in interactions, i took the lead when the situation was something i only had experience with or if it was with a group of my friends instead of his. I kind of prefer this because I love just getting to ride along and not have to plan or be the social one.
With women I was usually pushed to be the “top”, i don’t mind it, but most women prefer to take on that role in a relationship from my experience.
Other differences that come to mind would be:
-Men are hot, like temperature, they are always radiating so much body heat
-Men are more physical sexually feel way more comfortable initiating sex, I’ve never been uncomfortable with the guys I’ve met with tho cuz i kind of want/expect more sex earlier on in relationships from guys.
Women on the other hand, are physical romantically, they like kissing and holding hands and snuggling, but a lot of women feel uncomfortable moving from romantic to sexual. Probably because so many women are abused sexually in the US. Which puts it on me to initate most of the time.
-like every guy plays some kind of regular games, either sports or videogames, they’re more playful and competitive
Women like to watch things or read, they like hearing stories over playing games usually. I’ve met a lot of women who feel intimidated or unwelcome playing multiplayer games with men.