Penis is best by far, unwrapped. Like, sometimes I’d rather be cum in than get off myself. Fingers second place, whole hand rarely (it’s more a submissive thing than a physical pleasure, I hate when a fist pops out OMG it feels too much like childbirth and throws me out of the moment).
Toys I don’t bother with, I don’t use them on myself and on the rare occasion I want DP it’s pretty easy for us to find a guy who is into that, and just have him wrap. If I wanted a toy I’d probably get a vibrator not a dildo, but I don’t love those either, they feel desensitizing.
Fingers on the outside, cock on the inside are my preference, but I do like being fingered inside as well, just not as much.
Yes I do like thicker hung guys. PIV feels full, every part of my inside pussy so full. Fingers are more flexible and I do like guy hands in general so having that in me is very good. That overly aggressive “come here” thing guys do trying to hammer the g spot just hurts but a little softer can work.
With oral, oh heck yes fingers inside tongue outside, that is intense. But as previously noted I can’t receive too much oral, too prone to bladder infection.
I do not like fingers up my butt. Don’t love anal in general but it’s ok occasionally if the stars align, feel clean enough and want it at the same time.
From clit, fast, strong, intense and sensitizing (I don’t want touched after). From the indirect stimulation of PIV, gentler but longer and can build up and get more & more pleasurable.
From combined (like PIV with a tight angle facing each other) the added clit stimulation is great but I like it to stop before I do cum because the ones from inside do feel a little more manageable!
If clit stimulation were to continue while receiving penetration, you would just have the clit orgasm or both? Also, what wanting someone in you feel like and does that differ from general hornyness?
I’ve never had a “both”, I think the nerves are all connected and the ones from inside are indirect? So if I have anything inside me but getting direct clit stimulation that is for sure the driver of the orgasm, the inside just adds to it like boob play would.
And to the question about multiples from direct clit stimulation - usually I need a break in between, they don’t roll like the ones from indirect; it’s probably more like how guys feel. But - had a guy force those once, with a vibrator, like held me down and would not let up, no break just pushed through the oversensitive time - and honestly it felt like going crazy, I was not in control at all and it was not exactly pleasurable but it’s something I’m glad to have experienced, like LSD.
Well, LSD you can try for yourself, but of everything I’ve tried, it’s the only drug I would be willing to do again. My friend says it just makes you so stupid that everything seems smart, and so shallow that everything seems deep, but microdosing seems to work like Adderall so I’m not convinced. It’s worth trying IMO.
Arousal I think is likely similar for men and women. Hard to describe, would be a good question for a trans person.
Penis is best by far, unwrapped. Like, sometimes I’d rather be cum in than get off myself. Fingers second place, whole hand rarely (it’s more a submissive thing than a physical pleasure, I hate when a fist pops out OMG it feels too much like childbirth and throws me out of the moment).
Toys I don’t bother with, I don’t use them on myself and on the rare occasion I want DP it’s pretty easy for us to find a guy who is into that, and just have him wrap. If I wanted a toy I’d probably get a vibrator not a dildo, but I don’t love those either, they feel desensitizing.
Fingers on the outside, cock on the inside are my preference, but I do like being fingered inside as well, just not as much.
Does a man’s size matter to you? Also, what does PIV feel like vs just fingers vs getting yourself off?
Yes I do like thicker hung guys. PIV feels full, every part of my inside pussy so full. Fingers are more flexible and I do like guy hands in general so having that in me is very good. That overly aggressive “come here” thing guys do trying to hammer the g spot just hurts but a little softer can work.
With oral, oh heck yes fingers inside tongue outside, that is intense. But as previously noted I can’t receive too much oral, too prone to bladder infection.
I do not like fingers up my butt. Don’t love anal in general but it’s ok occasionally if the stars align, feel clean enough and want it at the same time.
Do PIV orgasms feel different than clit orgasms to you then, and if so, how?
From clit, fast, strong, intense and sensitizing (I don’t want touched after). From the indirect stimulation of PIV, gentler but longer and can build up and get more & more pleasurable.
From combined (like PIV with a tight angle facing each other) the added clit stimulation is great but I like it to stop before I do cum because the ones from inside do feel a little more manageable!
If clit stimulation were to continue while receiving penetration, you would just have the clit orgasm or both? Also, what wanting someone in you feel like and does that differ from general hornyness?
I’ve never had a “both”, I think the nerves are all connected and the ones from inside are indirect? So if I have anything inside me but getting direct clit stimulation that is for sure the driver of the orgasm, the inside just adds to it like boob play would.
And to the question about multiples from direct clit stimulation - usually I need a break in between, they don’t roll like the ones from indirect; it’s probably more like how guys feel. But - had a guy force those once, with a vibrator, like held me down and would not let up, no break just pushed through the oversensitive time - and honestly it felt like going crazy, I was not in control at all and it was not exactly pleasurable but it’s something I’m glad to have experienced, like LSD.
What was LSD like? Also, what does arousal feel like to you?
Well, LSD you can try for yourself, but of everything I’ve tried, it’s the only drug I would be willing to do again. My friend says it just makes you so stupid that everything seems smart, and so shallow that everything seems deep, but microdosing seems to work like Adderall so I’m not convinced. It’s worth trying IMO.
Arousal I think is likely similar for men and women. Hard to describe, would be a good question for a trans person.