• RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    Shoulder to waist ratio (frame not muscle - I like that on women too) and guy hands and forearms, men’s legs are often really nice when they are in shape because they are leaner than women. But mostly it’s the overall frame, the way guys can look strong and sturdy.

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      Your words are exactly what my woman describes

      I send her videos of me doing things where the only things in shot are my hands and forearms, maybe a glimpse of my uniform, while I work on a piece of machinery or do something physicality demanding

      She absolutely loves it

      She makes me feel special, even when I’m doing something dirty and rough

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        I like very tall and skinny, or my height (ish) and anywhere from lean and muscled to fit and healthy but on the fat side. Usually bigger guys if my height, I have hangups about my own body. Not both tall and big, I guess those hangups run in both directions, lol - I hate feeling big but also hate feeling very small.

        I have had lovers both a little shorter and my weight but I wouldn’t say they were my “type” though it was fun to get tackled by them - that whole strength advantage guys have is a turn on, we can look the same size and I am stronger than I look but still any guy my size can hold me down.

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          What about body hair on a guy? The thought of being into someone that is hairy is a little foreign to me but I guess some people are into it? Are you one of those people (and if so, what do you like about that)?

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            I’m indifferent. Appreciate grooming, and don’t like a pelt, but guys don’t get to choose that. Not a specific turn on, no.

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                Sort of indifferent here too but if balding go ahead and buzz it all very short, don’t try to cover it. I do associate balding with testosterone, and I’m older now too, so yeah to some extent I am into that. But not to the point I’d look for it.